jocelyn.secret wrote:One of my lovers is into lingerie. I let him have mine and it is a turn on for me to think he's in it as he cums. I only let him wear it in front of me very occasionally - after all it would not be a treat if it was every day.
A lot of very open minded people. I like that. I hope my position is not too weird, and some of it really isn't. First of all, I wear full length thigh high compression stockings on the advice of my doctor. I found a site that offered a garter belt just for this type of apparel to help them stay up. I even wear them in public under my shorts at times. I don't care so much about what people think. I have a reason to wear them.
So, as recent post surgery attire, I'm in stockings and a garter belt for comfort. My legs look nice again without the varicosities.
That being said, I love the naughtiness of the feeling I get even though it is medically recommended that I wear them. Sort of a win/win situation for me.
I've never considered transvestism as a optional life experience. Even though I strongly wish to be female at times, I am a big square guy and when I've tried this in the past, it didn't work very well.
However...the possible weirdness.
As in my introduction, I mention I am recently widowed. My wife was 12 years younger than me. After she had been gone about 4 months, I took a trip away and not having her other personal items around made me miss her deeply. On return, I found that wearing some of the lingerie she used to wear during our sex play brought back a sense of her I missed. I don't do it a lot. I'm not small and she was not really large but I can get into some of her things. I think my favorite is a fishnet body stocking I gave her as a gift years ago. I wear it "upside down". My arms into the leggings cut so the netting catches on my middle finger, my head goes through the oversized "crotchless" part and the flounce of lace that never did look right near my face when I wore them right side up, goes down and hugs my somewhat wider hips than most men have. The together with my medically approved stockings and garter belt and I feel deliciously wicked.
As noted in the quote though -- doing it all the time wouldn't make it special. I do however cum onto or masturbate with some of her other satiny lingerie. It brings her back to me for a few minutes. Not into necromancy by any stretch -- I just like cumming into her lingerie drawer at times. I pretend she'd like to find the "surprise" later on.