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Postby footage » Thu Dec 18, 2008 5:01 pm

I have a hard time cumming with a girl when actually attempting to have sex. Not sure what it is. Sometimes I dont know the girl as well as I should. Its basically phone conversations but still how many guys actually have to know the girl but so well. Anyway, I think Ive gotten so into masturbating I really dont know what a woman is supposed to feel like. Sometimes she will get dry or ill slip out or something like that wont keep the mood up. I seduced just fine and I can get it up from her being nude in front of me but I kinda run into that little snag of not being able to cum. Whats the cause of this and how do I fix it for the next time whenever it occurs.
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Re: Cant cum with female

Postby EasternPaMale » Sat Dec 20, 2008 6:03 am

footage wrote:I have a hard time cumming with a girl when actually attempting to have sex. Not sure what it is. Sometimes I dont know the girl as well as I should. Its basically phone conversations but still how many guys actually have to know the girl but so well. Anyway, I think Ive gotten so into masturbating I really dont know what a woman is supposed to feel like. Sometimes she will get dry or ill slip out or something like that wont keep the mood up. I seduced just fine and I can get it up from her being nude in front of me but I kinda run into that little snag of not being able to cum. Whats the cause of this and how do I fix it for the next time whenever it occurs.



its called jitters .. OR cold feet. Seems to me that maybe you don't feel comfortable about doing what you were about to do . maybe its your mind telling you you need to know them longer - Esp if they're just a hookup kinda thing- But all people are different some can get it up and have sex for hours with a stranger .. some get it up and shoot their load in seconds after penitraition . maybe your trying to be like the guys in the video ? If so just be your self- half the porn out there is no way the same as u or anyone else having sex with someone - no one pumps a pussy that fast or a throat ungodly fast .. is there a fear you won't shoot enough cum? porn also has ppl thinking that its normal that guys shoot loads of cum time after time .. You are normal no matter if you shoot alot of cum or a little. think these questions thru and you my come across your answer you've been lookin for


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Postby footage » Sat Dec 20, 2008 7:23 pm

Thanks. I dont actually have the porno out when fucking someone. I think Ive watched enough pornos and gotten off while watching them that Im too used to myself. I also get off to videos that have been posted by real regular people which I really like better because they horny for real. I dont really know what it feels like for a pussy to grip that dick till you cum or a blowjob till you cum. I just dont get that sensation or tingly feeling. Part of it has been since I have gotten head so breify and from people I dont really know I guess I never really had it done well. If I could have it done well then maybe I could have done right. I do think nerves or jitters gets into it and everyone is different.But I really want to try out damn near everything it just after the instant hard on from the jump it just kinda fades. The seduction and mood making part is still good or would be more so if I was actually at the persons place more often. Such as a shower scene.
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Postby Wanker023 » Sun Dec 21, 2008 2:44 am

Footage I have had a similar situation in the past. I was getting a blowjob and it was hard to enjoy it. Mostly because I didn't know the woman all that well. I've spent so much time with porn and masturbation that doing something sexual with someone else seems unimaginable. I don't know what you could do to fix this problem. I'm assuming this woman you're with needs you to cum and wants you hard the whole time you're with her? That brings up another quesiton. What is it about cumming that is so appealing for the one who isn't cumming?
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Postby closet Amanda » Sun Dec 21, 2008 4:13 am

`Sounds to Me like you're wearing a rubber. I Hate rubbers (after only one try)!
If that's not the case, try fantasizing during it. I like to think of my sperm going places whatever i'm doing!
Be selfish, and do what you want, but realize her wishes too at the same time. It's a balance that you need to find.
Experiment and have fun :wink:
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Postby footage » Sun Dec 21, 2008 4:20 am

Wanker. Im not really with a certain woman. Im just saying that the times that I end up with one I cant cum. Closet Amanda I do use a rubber at all times. Also I dont really get to the point to talk about each others likes and dislikes. To busy trying to get the most out of the time I have while I have it.
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