Did someone teach you to masturbate?

Filip · by **Filip** » Sun Sep 04, 2011 9:29 am

Every once in a while in this forum someone mentions that a friend or an older relative showed them how to masturbate. I'm always intrigued by this, since I discovered it for myself, and I never even knew anybody else who admitted to it until I found this forum.

Did someone else show you how to masturbate? What did you think when you saw it? Do you think they did the right thing by showing you? I would love to hear your stories.

Slivers · by **Slivers** » Mon Sep 05, 2011 12:23 am

No, learned it all by myself.

aroused · by **aroused** » Mon Sep 05, 2011 7:42 am

Mostly no. But I started to masturbate later than my friends and their talk made me try it once myself, based on their stories. So probably indirectly yes.

Tazz41 · by **Tazz41** » Tue Sep 06, 2011 5:52 pm

Heard guys talk about it and finally tried it.been at it ever since.

eliminator · by **eliminator** » Thu Sep 08, 2011 4:33 am

did covered it completely by accident

(i didn't watch hardcore back then, or know about sites like this). . . .great discovery though!
(i wish someone had showed me though. . .would've been nice to have someone to do it with/talk about earlier in my life)

masterphil · by **masterphil** » Thu Sep 08, 2011 8:21 pm

First time was with another male, we had both finished school and it was the holidays, I was round his house and the conversation turned to sex, I was a late developer sexually and at 15 was not even curious about sex..........untill this particular day!

Out of the blue my mate said he liked to dress in his mums clothes and would I like to see, without thinking I said yes and before I knew it he was back in his room in his mums clothes. He then did a silly strip down to bra and knickers. It was then I saw his bulge, instinctively I reached out and stroked it, my cock became hard and I felt really strange.

He then sat next to me, I pulled my pants down and he stroked my cock, it didn't take long for me to blow my load I can tell you. What a first time.

We spent the next couple of months at each others houses when no one else was home, dressing up in our mothers clothes, wanking each other silly, we even tried giving each other blow jobs!

We went on to find jobs so drifted apart, it never crossed our minds we may be gay (we are both now married and I have never been with a male since) but it was great fun.

How many other males first time was with another male?

Surreal · by **Surreal** » Fri Sep 09, 2011 3:45 am

I don't remeber when i start masturbating, ( about 9 years i think ) only the first time i cum

But i started watching porn a year or more before masturbarting. So i think something in the movies made me want to start wanking.

But to be honest, i think it's something u will do with someone teaching or not. It's just a question of time.

lou50 · by **lou50** » Tue Sep 13, 2011 4:09 pm

I learned it all by myself. I started experimenting around the age of 9 and by 10, I was doing it every chance I got!

eliminator · by **eliminator** » Thu Sep 15, 2011 3:58 am

i was almost afraid of seeing other people's penis's even though i did watch lots of "porn" when i was younger, then after accidentally discovering that i can cum, porn became more . . .relatable?

Cocknhand77 · by **Cocknhand77** » Mon Sep 26, 2011 12:09 pm

I had an idea but was pre-peubescent. I fortunately had an older neighbor well into puberty to light the way.

Filip · by **Filip** » Thu Sep 29, 2011 1:23 pm

Cocknhand77 wrote:I had an idea but was pre-peubescent. I fortunately had an older neighbor well into puberty to light the way.

I'd love to hear more details. How did your neighbor bring up the topic? Did he masturbate in front of you?

cupcake40 · by **cupcake40** » Sat Jan 14, 2012 11:50 pm

Nope, entirely self-taught!

21finish · by **21finish** » Fri Jan 20, 2012 6:08 am

Learned how to make my cock feel good myself by natural ways - pressing against pillows, the bed etc. But jerking off to make myself cum was something I learned by doing it with another boy. We were both in 5th grade and the topic always came up with a bunch of us guys talking on the school play-ground telling lies and jokes. Guys, you know what I'm talking about. Anyway, one of my friends figured out I didn't really know about jerking off and we set up a time after school to meet in the upper part of his family's barn. Good thing about living in the country is there were always places to go to be "alone" with someone. Well, we met and he said we had to drop our pants and get stiff. That seemed a bit weird but OK, I could do that and we did. We started pulling on our cocks and boy did that feel different from anything I had ever done. He said that was what it felt like to fuck a girl. Yeah, right, I said like you know that! He said his dad had told him that when he taught him about masturbating. After just a few minutes, my friend said he had cum although I know now that all he did was some good pre-cum. It sure looked strange to me and he said that was the end of it, he couldn't do any more. I hadn't done anything yet so kept going for a bit since it felt so great. After a few more minutes, his folks started calling him to do chores so we had to hurry up and pull up our pants and get back down. We made plans to do it again on the week-end but his family went off somewhere and we never did that again. That was a great session and I never did that with another guy but still can remember just how great it was to jerk off together while watching each other.

EltonJ · by **EltonJ** » Thu Feb 16, 2012 8:22 am

Yes, and no.

When I was like thirteen, I got a call from a man who taught me how to masturbate. It was tele-molestation, but I kept it secret right up to now. i didn't know the guy, he just taught me how to masturbate.

I know the guy got what he deserved.

dickhardy · by **dickhardy** » Sat Feb 18, 2012 6:57 pm

Yes, an older male cousin. He asked me if my dick got hard and if I ever played with it. From that he told me if I jacked on it and kept at it what would happen. He then showed me on himself, and I followed. Been doing it ever since.