I can remember various times where I fell into a slump and didn't even bother wanking off (I am actually in that right now, haven't cum since last Friday AM and have been working on the prostate orgasm). I haven't really been bothering to play with him since I am building up the cum for the PO. But since I don't feel like working on the po....well if you don't follow me here, PM me and I'll explain.
As for different ways, the Fleshlight sounds pretty interesting and fun, use different lubes, I have always liked different locations, I like to be nude in different places and if an O cums...so be it. You are limited by your own imagination here
. Look around, you have a stick and you want to find a hole to store it in.....go from there. Or you want to play with your asshole, go out and look for safe, sexy "sticks" to insert. Watch different movies or look at different pics.
It's out there...go get it