by Alan » Tue Apr 03, 2007 8:44 am
A little advice.
I can certainly understand how getting caught masturbating can be a sexual fantasy, however, I think it is necessary that our sexual desire maintains a healthy balance. There is a saying that some things in life are better left as a fantasy. Unless you know that your audience is a consenting adult, you are taking the risk of seriosly offending someone. On the surface, the thought of masturbating in public may seem harmless. The reality, however, is that you are forcing yourself on someone, which by definition, would make you a sexual predetor.
No offense to anyone, just trying to give a little advice. For me, a forum such as this allows me to have fun without taking the risk of hurting someone.
To the extent anyone has read my posts over the past couple of months, I love masturbation. Although I am not into guys (unless you have nice breast implants; then send me a p.m. LOL), knowing or watching a guy jack off does not offend me and at times even turns me on. My point is that I think I am extremely open to males or females masturbating and the thought of catching someone in the act is exciting. Having said this, my truck is a 4-wheel drive and is taller than most every other car on the road, allowing me to look down and clearly see what people are doing in their cars. On two seperate occassions I have seen guys jacking off while they pretended to act as though they were not being watched. On both occasions I was extremely offended and disgusted, but I have no idea why. The thought of watching a guy jack off does not bother me at all and can be fun; however, only if I am in a sexual mood and I want to watch. On the other hand, having a guy blind side me with his masturbation whithout my consent pisses me off does not turn me on at all. I guess I am trying to say that if it offends someone as sexually open and secure as I am, just think how other unsuspecting people may react. In no way am I lecturing or judging anyone, just trying make sure everyone knows what they are doing.
For the record, I saw a female masturbating in her car....what a fucking turn on.
Perhaps I will get a web cam for the mp chat room and pretend that I didn't know it was on.....LOL.