im pregnant.......

[smexylucy]

thanks for everyones advice, the comments and advice have really touched me . i have an abortion lined up, it just isnt the right time for me, im 19, almost 20. i dont think it would be fair for the child to come into the world without a father and a proper surface if you understand.

[bigclitmomma]

thanks for everyones advice, the comments and advice have really touched me . i have an abortion lined up, it just isnt the right time for me, im 19, almost 20. i dont think it would be fair for the child to come into the world without a father and a proper surface if you understand.

I know that there have been a number of comments and advice given to you over the past week or so...responding to an event of this magnitude in your life is difficult for all of us....what can we possibly say that will be helpful? Comments notwithstanding, I am sure that all the members of this community will join with me in wishing you the very best of luck...what you are going thru has not been easy, the decisions have been difficult and your future at times uncertain. You have made a decision that is right for YOU at this particular time in your life, and we can only stand by you as you proceed with it. Hope to hear from you again in the coming weeks....

[footage]

I do understand and I should thing the rest of us as well. It is the best decision for you because you feel its right and for decent reasons. There are two many people out here with kids and no father figures. That has not only an an affect on the child but you as well. All these faceless dads around her either locked up or just dont stick around. So, you can try to find the right person like the rest of us now thru dating and good experiences. Additionally, do fun activities along the way without having to worry about babysitters and waking up all night. Its just you have your youth and they will happen when it is a better time for it. Im glad you listened and took in what we were saying. Good luck and go about it the right way from now on. Enjoy your life.

[Smartie]

I'm reading this late, but let me tell you that I'm glad that you already made a decision and if you think it's the best for you, then go ahead.

The only thing I'm against, is people doing things against their will, so, I wish you the best.

*hugs*

[smexylucy]

i had *it* done today, my big sis came with me. i wasnt as upset as i thought i would be, perhaps its because i was so early into my pregnancy i didnt feel guilty i was losing a life.at least im back to myself again

[Morien]

I don't know how a person "can't believe" in contraception. You can believe or not in God, horoscopes or life on other planets. Contraception is not an UFO. It's been tested and tried. Every kind of contraceptive has a failure rate. But failure rate's of modern contaceptives are really low.
If you plan to have intercourse but can't raise a kid at this point in your life get protected. Abortion is not a fun experience as you undobtly managed to see. you have every right to want to avoid having a repete performance.
A link for you: http://www.scarleteen.com/article/reproduction/birth_control_bingo
Good luck! And take care of youself!

[jc205]

Just one thing I want you to know, I worked with a smashing girl just your age, she enjoyed clubbing etc. She caught and aborted 3 times.First time no effect said it was easier than going to the dentist, second time she was quieter for a while but soon got back to normal,few weeks after third she burst into tears, and depression hit her hard,still under treatment.Dont know if this is a normal happening but I'd hate it to happen to you. So please take care,the guys normally wont,
jc

[sage]

when i was pregnant i wanted to fuck all the time. lots of finger fucking towards the end of each pregnancy. it was awesome.