Over 50s Area

[bugleone]

Susie,...I think your embarassment about female genital shapes and features is essentially a British thing as quite a lot of us are sexually shy and repressed in so many ways while still having a strong urge or need,...seems to be uniquely Britsh phenomenon not seen much elswhere in the world.

A few years back I was discussing porn videos with a friend when he said, "all the men have such horrible cocks", and I had to agree with him. Theres much in porn which is a direct 'turn off' for me but I put this down to being British! Often I find both male and female genitals either not interesting or downright ugly. Having said that, I do very occasionally see a 'nice' cock in a vid or picture etc, but I have noticed that I have a distinct eye for specimens that are similar to my own!....a thick base and upwards curve with well rounded/shaped glans.

Visual material of the female genitals don't usually interest me,...However, several real live pussies that I have known have been very beautiful and I have enjoyed admiring them a lot!

Something that has always intrigued me is that, since many women have strong preference in what they like a man to look like, ie., some like slim, angular men adn others like stocky build,...do women have a particular 'model' of penis that they like or admire. I am talking about visual apearances, not ..."must be over 10 inches" type of thoughts!

What I mean is; if a woman likes tall thin men, does that mean she likes to see a long thin penis? I have asked several women this but never really got a straight answer......

[Susie]

Interesting, Bugleone........As I have said before, it's the person, not the cock that is attractive and I think if we love that person, cock shape, length, etc is not an issue. If I were however, looking for the ideal man, he would have the looks and voice of a younger Robert Wagner (think 'the Towering Inferno')

My ideal cock would be of average length, say six inches and would definitely be circumcised. Thickness again, not an issue but hardness is. There is nothing more exciting than seeing a cock so hard, it looks like it will burst without being touched. This cock would belong to a gentle, well groomed, clean shaven man who is slightly effeminate. If he moans very loudly while masturbating, so much the better.

I hope that goes a little way to answering your query.

Now what about you guys? Ideal women (or men). Big breasts, small breasts, loud personality or doesn't it matter as long as they are breathing? haha

[littledawg1961]

For me a woman with small breasts and a personality.
Again, a woman with a personality is more important than anything.
She could be drop dead gorgous and not be able to carry on a conversation.
What do you do after sex.

[TheMature1]

This cock would belong to a gentle, well groomed, clean shaven man who is slightly effeminate. If he moans very loudly while masturbating, so much the better.

My gosh! You've just described me! (Except for the Robert Wagner part )

Now what about you guys? Ideal women (or men). Big breasts, small breasts, loud personality or doesn't it matter as long as they are breathing? haha

Breast size and race don't really matter to me, but I do enjoy looking at some cleavage when a woman is dressed. And, yes, personality does it for me--straightforward, adventurous, but not overbearing. I particularly like looking into ice-blue eyes (like Meg Foster's), and love to bury myself is a clean-shaved or closely-cropped nest. That's the kind of woman I grok.

[indyguy14]

I think there is a natural maturation to the sex equipment of both sexes, our respective organs don't look the same now as when we were young teens; nor do our bodies or faces, for that matter. I agree with Susie, the appealling part is a womans lips, which are meant to be external. The remaining pieces are best discovered in a more indepth way, not via pictures. Cocks on the other hand are out there for display. I have always felt if the equipment was sufficent to satisfy the respective partners; isn't that all that counts. I for one am very happy with my parts, they never fail to make me feel pleasure. Their appearance to others is not an issue for me( I am an nudist) to loose any sleep over. I do enjoy viewing the diversity of cocks, breasts, legs, faces and the combinations of each. Is there any perfect package, I doubt it. What might be an otherwise regular body is transformed by the mind & spirit attached to that body. The brain is by far the largest sexual organ, the spirit with which one shares & uses their body(parts) is ultimately the way sexual power is sent & received, wether mm, mf, ff. Our age, over 50 here, allows us to know that thru experience it isnt just the parts that count, but the way they are presented & the mix of use. Just my opinions.

[TheMature1]

Cocks on the other hand are out there for display.

I've always wondered why cocks are not "displayed" any more (with codpieces) the way breasts are. At least, that way, both sexes would have something to look at.

[str8mate]

Cocks on the other hand are out there for display.

I've always wondered why cocks are not "displayed" any more (with codpieces) the way breasts are. At least, that way, both sexes would have something to look at.

omg, that's hilarious. I do have this one gay friend who always buys jeans that accentuate his package, so in some respect, he's sporting the modern codpiece. If it were me though, I don't know if I would want people constantly staring just at my crotch.

[bugleone]

Susie,

".........does'nt it matter as long as they are breathing, haha......"

Hey! that's insulting to us necrophiliacs!

(Just kidding!)

Some thoughts;....For me, the most exciting, interesting, sexual and attractive/nonattractive part of a woman is between her ears...

Several times in my life I have found myself strongly attracted to particular women, most of whom were not beautiful or otherwise gifted in any obvious way. Although I am a fairly analytical person, I have never been able to get a clear idea of why I found them attractive, other than the realisation that their physical attributes were secondary. Two of these women I was in love with, one I could have been in love with and the others just had something that got my immediate attention.....Other than that it's always been an annoying mystery to me!

There is a type of woman who is not pretty or beautiful but just exudes personality and 'sex appeal'....what exactly that 'sex apeal' actually is is much harder to get a grip on. Some near neighbours have three daughters who are all short and dumpy build and while nice girls, are no raving beauties. When the middle girl reached puberty the boys started gathering around the front gate in the evenings and from then on she was never seen without a boyfriend. She is now a busy young mum with three school age children, a bit overweight and over worked but when you meet her you become increasingly aware of an impulse which would love to get her clothes off and bend her over the sink....

As mentioned in another post, I particularly like maturity in women. Any attractiveness I find in younger women is usually connected to signs of maturity and purpose in their lives. I find 'girlyness' distinctly offputting and unattractive, and even irritating......a chuckling woman who shares her humour and laughter is nice, a giggling, tittering one tiresome.....if that makes any sense?

As regards physical attributes, there is a world of difference for me in what I find photogenic and what I can only crudely describe as 'shagable'..... Personally, I'm a 'bum fancier' rather than a 'tit man' and I prefer a stocky buid,..ideally the curvy 'pocket Venus' type. I find cleanliness a definite turn on, also nice hands and feet with short clean nails,...well presented without being overdressed....minimal makeup.

[limlom]

What a great idea for this new page,I look forward to it.

[Susie]

I think one of the most attractive features in a man is his sense of humour. Any guy that can make me laugh, is half way there. I can usually laugh at anything and am told my humour is 'an acquired taste', so if I click with a guy humour wise, whatever he looks like (within reason), he becomes instantly attractive. Another turn on is a dark suit with a white shirt (think Robert Wagner (again) in Hart to Hart). I often wonder why I find this so sexy and sometimes I think it is because my father always dressed like this.

Maybe this could be another matter for discussion. Why do we think certain things turn us on? I know where my obsession to watch men wanking came from. Do incidents that happened in puberty have a profound effect on the rest of our lives?

[TheMature1]

Do incidents that happened in puberty have a profound effect on the rest of our lives?

Indubitably. I was molested as a child by a teenage boy, which piqued my interest in men's cocks in particular, and ignited an interest in sex in general as well. My first real orgasm at 13 started me on the path of masturbation, from which I've never departed. Certain books I read at that time also affected my outlook on sex and women.

[tumpy]

Throwin use older guys a bone huh??? Bad joke huh???

[alphonse]

I don't think that a special area for the older people is a good idea. Next may come something for the under twenties or people with a university degree. The result would be a fragmentation, undesirable in my opinion. I am interested in all things brought forward in this forum, irrespective of the age of those writing and I am sure that many younger people listen with interest to the experiences of the older generation. I further have the impression that all participants here are polite enough not to ridicule the older person. In real life it happens easily that the older person is chased away. But it appears that such is not the case here. We have a common theme that joins us. So, I would say let us continue to be one community of like minded people.

alphonse

[raincoaster]

Hi Susie,

Sexuality, as we all know, is not black or white. I think we all have a bit of 'gayness' in us and are all intrigued to see and compare members of our own sex masturbating, like how long they last, whether they make loud noises or just their method.

I'm middle-aged, straight, and have been a nudist since my teens. Now I don't know about the ladies here, but I'm sure all the gents, if they are honest, would admit to having masturbated with one or more of their friends when they were kids. When boys are 10 or 11, they seem to spend a lot of time pulling down their pants with their friends and looking at each other's cocks. I know I did. That may be what you meant by 'a bit of gayness in us', but I think its probably more just a part of growing up and discovering our own sexuality.

I wonder though if any of you guys are actually repulsed at the sight of another guys equipment. I say this because I actually think the female genitalia is very ugly, especially when the clitoris hangs outside the labia. It seems to have no form at all.

As a regular visitor to our city's clothing-optional beach for decades, I have seen several thousands of people naked, both male and female over the years. Judging by the VERY large numbers of people who visit the beach every year, I don't think many people are repulsed by the nude body. I know I am not repulsed by the sight of another guy's cock, and definitely not repulsed by the sight of the female body.

I hate to see the vulva fully exposed. In a way, it embarrasses me. I know the guys on this site won't agree with me but I just wondered what you guys think about other cocks when you see them. Do you think 'oh, that's just a cock' or 'wow, what a magnificent specimen'? Do you judge them, compare them or just think a cock is a cock is a cock?

Although traditional nudist literature would deny it, when you are at a nude beach, yes, everybody LOOKS! One of the reasons you go to a nude beach is to see and be seen. If I'm walking down the beach and pass another guy, sure I look at his cock and I'm sure he looks at mine. Pass a lady, you look at her breasts and pubic area, and again, I'm pretty sure she has a look at your cock. Spread out your towel, and you are looking at the people around you.

I've seen lots of guys at the beach with erections, (or at least partials, known as a 'beach boner') and have had them myself. I've sat and played chess with another guy and we both had erections. I don't think we were repulsed by the sight of each other's erection. As a matter of fact, we both joked about them. So obviously we were both looking. If you are repulsed, you don't look. When I see another guy's cock, I look at the length, the shape of the head (amazing difference in the size and shape of heads), the amount of foreskin if uncircumcised, how the balls hang, whether its shaved or not, how it swings, you name it.

[mac_46_46]

I'm 61, akmost 62, and I still LUV to jackoff. I really enjoy sharing and hearing other other older guys share their jacking
experiences. Having a place to do this would be great for all of us.