aronpete wrote:bill470 wrote:.... Does anyone have experience of the new toys? They're quite expensive. Bill
I spent a hundred dollars on an auto jack thing that is a mechanical strokler but got disgusted with its performance and trashed it. Waste of money. i also have an eStim electric thing that cost $400 and i don't think it is worth anything like that much. I mostly enjoy good old fashioned hand work. No lubes, just a good daily stroke with fingers and pics and videos.
Funny thing but the videos that get me most aroused are the vids of myself stroking. If you would like to see my vids search on my nickname at dick.net and let me know if you stroke along with me.
aronpete wrote:bill470 wrote:.... Does anyone have experience of the new toys? They're quite expensive. Bill
I spent a hundred dollars on an auto jack thing that is a mechanical strokler but got disgusted with its performance and trashed it. Waste of money. i also have an eStim electric thing that cost $400 and i don't think it is worth anything like that much. I mostly enjoy good old fashioned hand work. No lubes, just a good daily stroke with fingers and pics and videos
Newbie here that's experimented with many different toys. Couple of aids I've found good are the oyster (other brands not so good) radio-controlled cock ring vibrator and the muscle toning electrical stimulation (EMS) machines. Cock ring is great when out in public. Place ring at base of glans so that vibrating bit is held against junction of foreskin at back of penis, keep remote somewhere handy, like a jacket pocket, and press button for instant stimulation. The small remote has different buttons for different strengths and is so discrete you can use it anywhere; it only occasionally makes me cum (wear condom to prevent a mess) but sure gets me horny. Also fun if your parner has one, ladies use the clit vibe attachment and you swap remotes. The clit vibe is more effective and I've given ladies orgasms in all sorts of places. And don't get me onto adult games at parties, just use your imagination
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EMS is fiddly but feels great when you get things right. Make your own electrodes from fine, braided wire (more flexible/comfortable than solid wire) and metallic knobs/buttons. You can then experiment with different erogenous zones and stimulation programmes. Try one electrode wrapped around glans or base of penis and the other applied to different body areas (you can also experiment with multiple electrodes, rather than just two). Ensure electrodes have a good surface area, eg. not something like the tip of a wire, because if too small the experience is too intense. Once set-up and programmed correctly it's a great way of relaxing; just lie on bed, connect-up and switch on (although I still prefer to finish by hand). A female friend also uses the EMS to enhance masturbation (she bought it to tone-up, but discovered a better use during the first few sessions!) and it's great for foreplay with a partner. Fit one electrode in/on your parner and wrap the other around your finger, close to tip. As you explore their body with your finger the circuit completes and provides stimulation whenever and wherever you touch them - wet the tip of your finger to ensure good contact. Other options are an anal electrode for her and one at base of penis for him (good for fucking, for max stimulation just make sure only penis and vagina connect your bodies), or anal/vaginal for her and one in mouth for him - keep power low and lick her sensitive areas, your tongue will still feel a bit strange though!