Abstinence, methods of abstaining

[Doma]

heres some tips for abstaining ive discovered

1. try and not be alone. you tend to masturbate when you've got alot of time with yourslef so try and send most of your time with people such as friends or family
2. as i get horny and feel the urge to touch myself when im in the bath or shower try and spend as little as 10 minutes in the shower or bath.
3. it is proven that when your bladder is full you feel hornier than when its not full so whenever you feel you need to use the bathroom... do it.
4. dont go looking on porn sites... i dont need to tell you why.
5. find a friend(s) who will abstain with you and together you can kee each other motivated to not feel the need to masturbate. spend as much time as you can with each other discussing how its going. motivation is the key.
6. always remember - if i dont masturbate today i'll have a day full of cum and a greater orgasm to unleash the next.
7. dont go to bed until your feeling really tired then you can just fall asleep easily and not get any ideas about masturbating.

hope i could be of help.

Sorry for bringing this thread up again but I really want to try to abstain from masturbation.

I really like Russ's ideas and I'll try to implement them.

[dicklion]

Back when I played football I had an injury to my groin area(not the balls) and had surgery to reattach a muscle as was told not to jack off for 96 hours ( 4 days)

well with sexy nurses all around I was hard the whole time- 2 nurses were cool and brought me ice and a towel
I kept my cock and balls cool but was hard all day long.

3rd morning I woke with a wad of goo in my pubes and the nurse smiling when she came to the room a fw minutes later.
Telling me- "I watched your wet dream"

After he 4 th day i went home and grabbed a beer took a piss and jacked off 3 time that afternoon

Wow was i sore but at least I came again.

[Wanker023]

Great story dicklion. Have you tried regular abstaining since then?

[stroker6]

this year while on vacation with 2 other guys i made it 8 days, keep in mind i had no porn, no lube and someone else was sleeping in the same room. once home i went to town stroking and it was great, more intensified than normal. now i have abstained for 2 days and my cock is feeling really good, so good I just came and it was a nice big load. There are times when I do it 3 times a day for like a week, and it seems take away some of the fun, or you feel like you are chasing you tail trying to get the best edge possible. I think not stroking to make stroking better is a good incentive.

[Doma]

I've tried before, failed miserably lol.

I always seem to stumble on the 4th day for some reason

1. yay one day
2. I'm doing well
3. I'm starting to believe I can do it
4. I feel like I havent masturbated for months, and well.....

[Doma]

My Absinence starts tomorrow, I'm going to try to go through the entire week and then the whole month without masturbating.

[dicklion]

I have abstained for up to 3 days(3rd was hell) a few times during work /biz travel just do it by working a lot and knowing I can't- Once was in same boat and we extended the trip---- I took a walk at night and jacked off twice at a nearby mall{in the fitting rooms at JC Penney and then GAP. AHHHH BABY !!!

[johnblob]

I've decided to do this again, it's been about 2 days now since I masturbated last, and I plan to go at least until Saturday, then it depends how I feel. Once I abstained for 4 full weeks and I found that I had more energy and felt generally better. As it is now I just tend to masturbate out of boredom, I don't do it for fun or reasons that I think I should, so I want to just go without it for a while, that way I'll apreciate it more when I do it again.

[Doma]

This is my first day and it already feels like it has been a week!!

[johnblob]

It doesn't usually bother me too much. All you have to do is keep away from websites that you'd usually visit when you wank, just do something else to occupy yourself. I find that it helps to go out more, tire yourself out a bit.

[SAVANNAH]

I think Oscar Wilde said that "celibacy is the most unnatural human condition". I believe Mr Wilde was refering specifically to the Catholic clergy. Mr Wilde had hardon, so to speaks, for Priests etc. Thats beside my point anyway. All your excuses aside why abstinance? Darwin himself said "use it or lose it" The medical types argue that men with an active sex life are less likely to suffer from prostate problems and cancer. That alone would give me pause to reconsider abstanance.

Besides that other stuff you sound, from your own discription, like a sexual athlete. Even if your exaggerating some you don't sound to bad. Why not put it to work as an asset rather than a liability? You know. Making porn movies or servicing lonesome little old rich ladies.

Your aware that your spinning your wheels with your frigid old lady. Her pussy aint gold. Why hang around where your not appreciated. Nut up. Be a man and put those testicals and cock to work. You should be pleasing horny women everywhere you can.

[dicklion]

who?

[Wanker023]

Savannah I didn't quite understand the last half of your post. But I get the first part. I agree that a lack of masturbation causes prostate problems. But too much masturbation makes orgasms weak and unfulfilling. At least for me. I find abstinence makes cumming last longer and feel stronger.

Don't agree? try abstaining for at least three days then go at it again.