Prostate-Initiated Orgasm - Check it out!

[ilikeitalot]

...each time I orgasmed the fluid spirting from my flaccid cock was very thin and colourless. ... Therefore, when loads started spirting and shooting everywhere was this cum or piss? I am a bit worried if it is the latter. Some people have said the ejaculate is very runny but does this sound correct? -Nyale

If there was lots of spurting and shooting, I would think that was urine... although it might've included some prostatic fluid. With prostate stim, I've never had more than a little "spurt"... unless I fully ejaculate. And the fluid is always either white or at least a little cloudy. Of course, precum (a completely different type of sexual emission) would definitely be clear... but I've never had precum "spurt" out either.

If you urinate before doing this, you should be pretty sure about NOT getting urine while doing this. But as lovethyself said, if you go at it for a long time, you might need to take a another pee break... or just let it all loose and not worry about it. (I'm not a big fan of peeing during this though... that kinda turns me off.)

[kiwik]

I can't wait to try it.... It sounds really exciting but the problem is I don't want to get myself used to fingering my ass. I am afraid it will turn into a bad habit and I'll play with my ass a lot.....I might even turn gay, well.......no not really its a slippery slope but it is more likely if you ask me.

Saying that I really do wanna try it. Anything to spice it up you know...

You won't turn gay, there are many straight guys who like anal stimulation, either by fingering themselves or getting a woman to it for them.
Gay lifestyle has nothing to do with where you like to be stimulated, but by whom.

[ilikeitalot]

This is a PM I received today:

Hi, am new to the site, (35 f Scotland) and have read and reread your thread on PIO with interest. I have a question, but am unsure where to post it, as it is not really about masturbation as such. Feel free to post my questions in the appropriate forum, or tell me where to post it myself.

Thanks to a very enlightening male gay friend I have been aware of the joys of stimulating the prostate for many years and include it during hand jobs, oral and full sex (where partners were willing) with happily satisfied results. I just didn't realise the amount of time necessary to milk it to orgasm like you describe. Reading your thread has enlightened me further. Being single at the moment I have no one to ask/try this out with, and I like to come to the table with all the info available.

Your thread gives lots of tips for combined hand job and PIO, but have you tried PIO combined with oral? As cock is not not errect during PIO would oral stimulation interfere and lessen the pleasure? Would oral work best once you start to precum? Loving the idea of lapping all that love juice up.

Thanks in advance.

Loving this site..

KT

Wow KT! Your interest in this is awesome... I only wish ALL women were as eager to please. Any guy that gets you is sure to be very happy... and very sexually satisfied. As for your questions, I'll answer them as best I can....

Your thread gives lots of tips for combined hand job and PIO, but have you tried PIO combined with oral?

No, I unfortunately haven't tried PIO combined with oral. Wifey is not a fan of blowjobs... and I'm sure she'd think prostate stimulation was disgusting. But I can tell you for sure that it would be one of the BEST things a guy could experience. IMO, adding skillfully-applied prostate stimulation to a blowjob would transport the guy into an erotically-charged alternate universe. In other words, be prepared for the guy to blackout for brief periods of time lol.

As cock is not not errect during PIO would oral stimulation interfere and lessen the pleasure?

Well, the cock CAN be erect during this... it just USUALLY isn't. The biggest problem would be that stimulating the cock to keep it hard could easily result in premature ejaculation. When the prostate is feeling really good, it doesn't take much cock stimulation to make the guy cum. So it might require a balancing act to keep the sensations at a peak in both locations... without triggering an orgasm. You could try doing this after the guy has recently cum, so he'd be less likely to cum again... but I'm not sure if the prostate sensations are as good with a mostly-empty prostate. It might just require some experimenting on your part. (Damn, I would love to be your test subject lol.) Ask the guy to tell you to back off on the oral if he's getting too close to orgasm. But know this... ejaculation can sometimes come without warning with a PIO. Anyway, if you try this out, please educate us on what you discover.

Oh... to answer your question, oral stimulation would definitely NOT interfere or lessen the pleasure. In fact, it would greatly INCREASE the pleasure. Even if the cock stays soft, it would STILL be a great sensation. Just lick and suck on the soft little thing lol... and don't forget to do some of that to the balls as well.

Would oral work best once you start to precum?

Not sure on this. Again, experimenting would be the best route. In my experience, I can cum very easily with very little cock stimulation if my prostate is way turned on... so you'll have to guard against making him cum too quickly. You could start out by doing 10-15 minutes of prostate stimulation, then when the juices start flowing, start in with some oral. Having a girl massage/milk my prostate... then watching her lick, slurp and swallow the fluid that comes out... would probably rate at the very top of my "Ultimate Experiences" list lol.

BTW, the good thing about making him cum from a PIO is that he should still be ready for more. You won't get much cum after the first time or two... but the orgasmic sensations and ejaculatory contractions will still be there for the guy. Try going all night long with multiple PIO's lol.

If you have any more questions, feel free to ask away.

Edit: Oh, forgot to mention... there's two ways to make the guy cum with PIO: (1) prostate stimulation ONLY and (2) prostate stimulation with added cock stimulation (such as oral). Your questions were regarding an oral combo, so I didn't cover #1... but that's another thing you could shoot for as well. It takes more time than #2, but it would be a very different experience for the guy...

Loving the idea of lapping all that love juice up.

...and you could still lick up all the resulting "love juice" during the prostate milking... and then attack his cock and suck him really good when his prostate goes into the ejaculatory spasms.

[matmanic]

i've done prostate massage ever since i went to a urologist with a prostate infection. he bent me over a table, lubed up his index finger, stuck it up my ass and rubbed quickly side to side on my prostate a couple three times and then milked my dick a little until some fluid appeared, that he put on a slide and took into another room for testing. i never forgot that experience and some years later tried it at home. i could not get my finger in the right position to do it as he had done, so i looked around the house for a good substitute. i found an aluminum cigar tube and it was just what the doctor ordered. while standing, i put one foot up on the bathroom sink and stationed a mirror in a sink drawer just below my cock. i lubed up the tube and stuck it up my ass about 3 or 4 inches. i started moving it side to side like the doctor did until i got it right where it needed to be and then cum started dripping from the end of my dick onto the mirror. it was not clear precum, it was white viscous cum. not a lot, about 4 big drops. i had to kinda milked it out onto the mirror. i was so excited my legs were shaking. after i could not get any more out, i pulled the tube out of my ass and jacked off the rest of my cum on the mirror. wow... what an experience.

[HotRod]

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[JS2000]

I've been playing around with this technique for about a week now. It's quite slow going, and at first it was downright uncomfortable, but just today I finally was able to relax and found the prostate and caught a small glimpse of the sensation.

Anyway, right now what's holding me back is that I have been doing a lot of reading on prostate massaging, both for sexual purposes and medical. There are some medical sites that talk about this "vigorous" prostate massage used for acute infections, and that it can seriously damage you, and even cause death. There are a few other warnings as well. I'm just a bit scared that I'm going to break something!

So, my question is this: How hard should you press? Is it really easy to damage your junk from doing this? A wikipedia article states that you should only press as hard as you would an eyeball, but right now I'm having trouble getting any sensation from very light pressure. I've tried applying a bit more pressure, and it didn't hurt or anything, but these warnings scare the crap out of me.

[ilikeitalot]

JS2000, yes, I've read that massaging the prostate if you have an infection or prostate cancer can result in it spreading much faster. On the other hand, prostate massage can help prevent these conditions from developing in the first place by purging stagnant seminal fluid. That's why there's a medical procedure to milk the prostate. Anyway, if you're unsure about this at all, you should get it checked out by a doc before doing this (especially if you're 40+ years old). With a healthy prostate, you can (IMO) massage it quite vigorously without any negative side effects at all. Just make sure whatever you're using doesn't have any sharp edges lol. Myself, I press MUCH harder than I'd press on my eyeball... because the harder I press, the better it feels. Of course, there are limits. You wouldn't want to overdo it and hurt something in there.

[matmanic]

if something could get hurt in there from rough stimulation most gays guys would be dead...lol

[HitIT]

uhhh is this some kind of joke?! I can't even feel my prostate!! And each and everytime I insert my finger into my anus, it feels like I'm SHITTING! that really feels uncomfortable and i don't even know where is my prostate is! I ended up with no cum, no prostate and no dick sensation. Help me~!!

[ilikeitalot]

No, it's no joke... at least based on what most men say. IMO, everyone should be able to feel the sensations. But it may take awhile to get it going... and you need to be hitting the right spot. This thread should have the details on where, how, etc., so I won't repeat it here. (See this post for good info on the location: www.masturbationpage.com/forum/viewtopic.php?t=1090&start=52) You could also do a little googling for more details.

Yes, at first, it can feel like your shitting and/or be uncomfortable. But after a few times, you should get over that... that is, if you're interested enough to keep trying.

[aliciastoy]

Ilikeitalot,

what if anything have you heard about the prostate massager called Pantra, my spelling may be off.

i am thinking of getting 1 and need additional information other than the adds.

thanks

billys1

[ilikeitalot]

Nope, haven't heard of the Pantra. I looked it up just now. Looks like it's very similar to the Aneros. But it's a bit bigger and stimulates a bigger area inside. Based on what I read, it could work better than the Aneros for some guys. The Aneros never gave me the incredible sensations I was looking for, so I'd definitely like to try the Pantra. I only found it on UK web sites though. Here's the mgf's site: www.prantra.co.uk/pantra.htm

[jaypierpont]

I totally understand your feelings about the need to try something new in masturbation. I've tried rubbing my prostate and have had various results, probably because I haven't done it correctly every time.

I will say this: The first time I tried it I was lifted to a new level. It was like drugs. I wanted more. I thought I'd better take it easy or I might do it too hard--the way you described in your statement. I've done it several times now, using my fingers and later using a dildo. The dildo I used was too large to be comfortable so I'm thinking of buying a butt plug. With one of those you can just sit down on the thing because it's fixed to the floor with suction. You'd be able to move your body around on the plug and it should work great. If anyone has tried that, let me know.

All that said, I'm with you ilikeitalot. Keep exploring, man. Go for the good.

[guest76]

I just discovered the feeling of the so-called anal super-O and yes you're exactly right with intensity of it which is 100X better than the penile-based pleasure. However, mine is achieved through the use of aneros. Aneros performs better when you relax yourself first and warm up your anal part as well as the prostate gland. This would take about 5 min or higher depending on your bodily response to the tool (aneros). Your body has to get use to the feeling of aneros otherwise it would mentally alter your focus and attention towards achieving that "good feeling" which would follow once you properly warm up yourself. Whenever you feel the "good feeling" which radiates from the anal sphincter, it signals that you're getting ready for the next stage. In my own experience, i positioned myself as if i were just sitting in a soft and comfortable bed. This would allow a stronger yet controllable pressure to be applied towards the prostrate part. Breathing is a good way to relax and feel the sensation with a proper timing. Rub the aneros using your butt in a circular movement or forward-inward motion and constrict your anal muscles regularly. Don't worry about feeling indifferent as your sit on the tool as your body will get use to it. The good feeling will also be reinforced by rubbing your 2 nipples. It takes about 30 mins to 1 hour of doing this set-up before your reach a really intense prostate-base orgasm and this spasmic feeling runs for like 2 to 3 minutes of a really sweet and heavenly sensation. It's kind of mind-blowing so to speak. Try this and you will discover the all new way of feeling.

[ilikeitalot]

I'm putting Alan's superb description of his prostate/anal orgasm/technique here so I can have all the good stuff in one thread. Thx for the great info Alan. This is something I'll have to shoot for myself.

The anal super-o. I don't try to go after it very often, but when I do, it is unbelievable. After I send you this message, I think I will go for it. It is late, so I will be very brief. Let me know if you want more details; but you have to promise to masturbate as you read it.

I don't have an anal toy, so I normally use one of my gf's vibrators. For me, it works best to get in the bathtub (no water) with my legs on the top of each side (is it okay to masturbate as I write this?). I will then use a lube and slide a finger or two up my ass and massage my prostate. This dosn't feel the greatest, but once I can get a secretion out of my penis, my ass is ready. I then turn the vibrator on high and slide it up my ass. I have to put pressure on my prostate fpr several minutes before it starts to feel good. But then, the feeling is 100 times for intense then a normal orgasm. Basicalliy, I will start to slam the vibrator in and out of my ass. Pulling it all the way out, and forcefully shoving it all the way in. Over and over (not gay, love pussy).

I am starting to get turne on, so I hope you don't mind if I masturbate as I write this.

I think when most guys ejaculate, it is more of a mental release than physical. Meaning, once they cum, they are nolonger interested in sex. The anal super-o is much different. First of all, it is much more intense. When my ass is ready, I will fuck myself as hard as I can with the vibrator turned up towards my prostate. When I start to have an anal orgasm, every part of my body from the waste down is exploding with such an intense pleasure that I have to stop because it is too much. These orgasms can last up to a minute, but I have to stop....for ten seconds. Then I do it again, and again, and again. The orgasms can go on for thirty minutes of more. With each one, it feels better and better. Sorry for being brief, but i need to take care of myself now. Hope to hear from you. Ask any questions you want.