Masturbation in Your 40s

[cupcake40]

Hey Guys,
I just turned 40 not too long ago and I was wondering from you guys who are 40-plus if your masturbation experiences and the desire to do it have gotten better and more intense for you since you turned 40 or if it has stayed about the same as it was or has started to go downhill from your younger days. Do you last as long before you cum? Does your cock get as hard and stay as hard as it used to? Is the whole experience still as good for you now as it was in your younger days? Are there any new pleasures to look forward to? Does masturbation get more exciting or does it get boring as you get older? The 30s were by far my best years for masturbation and when I learned to really love and appreciate my cock. I still love pumping my cock sooooo much; I'm kinda scared about what the future holds for my desire to make love to myself. I just want to get a sense of what I have to look forward to (or not look forward to, as the case may be). Thanks for sharing your thoughts.

[ilikeitalot]

I think I qualify for your survey, so....

Do you last as long before you cum? I last much longer than I used to. It's also much easier to control WHEN I cum. I guess that can be chalked up to LOTS of experience with cumming lol.

Does your cock get as hard and stay as hard as it used to? My cock can get as hard as ever, but depending on the stimulus, it can be more difficult to get hard and/or stay hard. Anyone have any Viagra to share? LOL. But seriously, if the stimulus (real or imagined) is any good, I have no problem keeping ilikeitalot's cock hard lol.

Is the whole experience still as good for you now as it was in your younger days? Well, if I kept doing the same thing, it wouldn't be as good. But I seem to keep coming up with new ways to touch, stroke, etc. And since coming to MP and thinking/talking about masturbation and sex a lot more, I'd say it makes me appreciate and enjoy the whole experience much more.

Are there any new pleasures to look forward to? Well, there's always new pleasures. I'm amazed at how I masturbated essentially the same way (the same technique) for most of my life. For instance, I would mostly do the hard-grip jacking where you hold the skin tight and move it back and forth. Now, I sometimes use lube to spice things up. And for some reason, I had always avoided the head of my cock. Now I've learned that a loose grip that strokes over the cock AND the head does great things lol. Anyway, even with just solo masturbation, new pleasures can be found if you willing to experiment and try new things. It all boils down to this... don't think the way(s) you've always done it is the only way. Variety is the key.

Does masturbation get more exciting or does it get boring as you get older? IMO, it can get boring only if you overdo it. If I masturbated 1-4 times a day like some of the guys here, I don't think it would be very pleasurable at all for me. But by keeping it to 2-4 times per week -- and sometimes holding back (playing, but not cumming) for maybe a week -- it never gets old.

[Gary49]

I'm 49 and still cum 2 to 3 times a day, I suirt more now then when I was younger in volume, it feels better also. Downside I still shoot hard but not as far and I take 30 minutes between orgasms vesus the instant second ones I used to have. All in all I'd say it is better!

[LoveThyself!]

I'll have to let you know in a couple years, but it's only gotten better for me with every passing day, so my hopes are that it will continue to do so. The help, advice, tips and stories from friends here have really made the past year especially enjoyable, so keep yourself current with the community and you should do just fine.

[jayboy099]

Just turned 60 (can't believe it) ... still act like I'm in my 20's ... well almost! I cum at least 2x a day ... have since I was 11 ... been married for 30+ years, but still LOVE to masturbate ... I cum very quickly ... try to hold it off but love it so much that I cum after just a few minutes ... volume is somewhat less, unless I try to hold off for a few days and then its noticably larger! Enjoy guys ... it gets better with time

[MRBLOBBYOFCO]

Well I'm 47 and I enjoy wanking just as much as I ever did. I don't do it so often and I wouldn't normally wank a second or third time in the same day like I used to do in my teens! Cumming is just as good as it ever was and I don't ever tire of wanking. I think if you do it too often it could become a bit boring but it tends to be self-regulating so I only tend to do it at the frequency that it right for me at the time. It varies really and I think these things go in phases.

Happy wanking - however old or young u r.

Nr Blobby

PS am about to "practise" soon! lol

[uncut7in]

I'm 59 and masturbate as much as I ever have done especially all the time I'm online. I'm also fucking more than I have at any stage of my life, as I have found a beautiful young blond boyfriend who neds servicing regularly.

[rideme2]

I am 50yrs. old and still masterbate about 4to 5 times a week. It is better now then when i was younger. I also last longer and enjoy it more. I have the time to do it with no interruption. My orgasms are still good, and like the other guy i do not shoot as far as i used to, there are occasions when i don't do it for a couple days that i will shoot a good distance. But you will enjoy it better with age.

[happyjack]

55 here, and I still need my one cum each day...sometimes two! I still enjoy nice long sessions of edging, and I'm as horny as ever. No loss here, so far!

[rodpumper]

49 here and my love of masturbation hasn't diminished one iota. I'm continuously refining my technique and I think I'm a better masturbator than I ever have been.

And, as usual when on this site, yes, I'm beating off and it's great!

[Tazz41]

43 here, and the only thing that slows me down, is having time to do it.

[dicklion]

my Gf and her friend both fucked me a couple times Sta and SUnday- and I still jacked off twice both days and this week I have jacked off 4 times Monday and once today(fatre a morning blowjob.

[pleasure42]

I've just turned 52 and my cock still flows with as much creamy cum as ever. And the feeling is just as good. I'd like to masturbate a 40 y/o cock while I'm masturbating mine and see which one cums the most.

[bigbreastedteacherfan]

I am 46 years old. I was on anti-depressants for over a decade, but recently I've weaned myself off of them, and I'm amazed at how my libido has soared. Even though I'm not in great shape physically, I masturbate at least once a day.

[footman]

(Not sure if I should answer this as in four months I'll hit the big 5-0, but...)

Relax bro, the future will probably be fine. The only reason I say probably is because of health issues. My responses:

Do you last as long before you cum? I also last much longer than I used to and greatly enjoy edging and long sessions. It's also much easier to control WHEN I cum. Like some else said I guess that can be chalked up to LOTS of experience...

Does your cock get as hard and stay as hard as it used to? Again like others said... my cock can get as hard as ever, but depending on the stimulus (and your body itself), it can be more difficult to get hard and/or stay hard, but it always comes around for me and completes the job. I just search until I find the right stimulation. Sometimes it's external (porn pics or clips or where I'm masturbating) and sometimes internal, just getting excited enough about your own body to really blast.

Is the whole experience still as good for you now as it was in your younger days? Except for not cumming as strongly (spurting as far and with as much volume (but I've had a vasectomy too)), and recovering as fast, I'd say in many ways it's better. I seem to savor it more instead of just getting for getting off's sake. I also enjoy being creative and coming up with new ways to touch, stroke, and/or new places to masturbate. I've rarely kept the same masturbatory technique very long, always looking for something new.

Are there any new pleasures to look forward to? I'm sure there are as I'm constantly looking for new techniques, locations, lubes, toys and different combinations of them. Reading forums and MB sites like this one can generate lots of new ideas. The wife and I are planning on installing a handheld shower massager (something I absolutely die for) and a hottub, things we'll both enjoy together and that I'll definitely enjoy alone.

Does masturbation get more exciting or does it get boring as you get older? More exciting I think, largely because of more experiences and having more disposable income to buy things. In addition, for those of us with SO's there's always the ability to utilize aspects of that person or relationship for your benefit. I'm a foot fetishist, so I enjoy using my wife's sandals and flip-flops, both on and off her, while masturbating. Just another added dimension.