Edging?

[jaysees]

Anybody have any good tips on edging? everytime I try, I end up going all the way

[dickhardy]

I have also had problems trying to stop before going too far. Sometimes though when I first begin feeling that it won't be long, I just completely take my hand off my dick, wait a few minutes then start over again. I'm sure someone else can probably give you some better tips, but basically that is what I do - when I am able to stop before cumming.
Even when I can stop, I have never been able to edge for as long as I have read that some guys can - for hours, etc. For me that awesome feeling of shooting my cum sooner rather than later just takes over.

[Alan]

When you say you can't hold out, just what do you mean? Do you cum to easily? Or do you lose control and can't stop jacking?

Masturbating for several hours (edging) results in an intense and hard orgasm for me.

[justsomeguy]

I do what dickhardy does. When I feel like I am going to cum soon, I stop completely or maybe just stroke the side of my penis with a finger or two very slowly. I'll do this for about a minute or two and then resume stroking. I have gone for around three hours using this method on a couple occasions.

[azjackoff]

I am home alone on some days & have done edging for hours & never cum. I stop when I feel my cock loading up, that good feeling. Then I find some more naked pictures to look at & start again. I am very bi-curious now so I look at guys for the most part. I get my hard on quicker. I love to chat when I do this so talking with another guy is a turn on. I also will place phone calls & edge at that time. Doing a couple of differnt things allows the cock to go down. Then starting something gifferent gets it back up. Hope this helps.


Actually just typing this got me hard & I am going to masturbate to finish the day.

Looking for hot email chatting.

[LoveThyself!]

I think there are a few good threads in here on edging already. Give a quick search and see what you cum up with!

[dicklion]

Good thing about edging Trial and error the error is still and orgasm MMMMMM!

What I found was i got good results if I stopped just as it started to feel good and build up...- instead of a few more strokes before it starts twitching Them rest a few moments and star again

In the early days I got not too close and stopped and trained myself to get closer each time and then repeat over and over- Now I like to back off and let it go a little soft and start up again and edge a few times- let it relax and do it again

ZDoing this I can cum after 304 hours and pass out right on the couch....

[drench_me_ladies]

I have gotten to be able to stop right before I cum, and almost subconsciously do it a for a few hours at my computer desk. I used to try and stop when I was younger and I remember it was alot harder and more frustrating too. But now I can go for a while, like right now LOL just rubbing it on my leg through my shorts. Sometimes I don't have enought self-control to go for like hours and hours...if I have, I've already cummed a few times. Then when I decide to cum I get it all the way out and pump it slow and tight. I try not to go too fast and kinda tease myself a bit before I climax.

[Cordwainer]

If you are trying to learn how to edge and find yourself going too far, the trick is to pay attention. At first, don't look at porn, read erotica, of spin an elaborate fantasy. Just pay attention to the feelings in your penis. Keep stroking and stopping while trying to get closer to the point of no return every time you start up again. Focus on your cock.

When you get late in the session, you will feel the I'm-about-to-come sensation. You want to learn how to recognize that feeling and stay on the non-ejaculatory side of it. If you feel you are about to come, stop stimulating yourself.

If you go to far and start to come, don't start stimulating yourself again. At least once, discipline yourself and keep your attention focused on every feeling in your penis as you go into orgasm. That will burn into your brain exactly where your point-of-no-return is located and what it feels like.

[CWOOD]

I have something new that I have added to my edging. I truly enjoy edging and I have done it for over 6 hours in one session. What I do now while I’m edging I stroke my cock until I’m about to cum then I stop. What I would do in the past was take my hand off my cock then wait and start again. I have found that if leave my cock in my hand and I lift my balls(it's hard under there as well) and rub under my balls with a little pressure in a upward motion I get a lot of precum. The same type of precum you get with a prostate orgasm. I take my fingers all the way down by my asshole but I don’t stick my fingers in. I start right there and push up until I get under my balls. I will continue to do that in some what a milking motion, looking at the head of my cock until I stop seeing precum coming out. Once I’ve got all I can I will continue to stroke and start all over again. The feeling is awesome

[raincoaster]

Cordwainer makes some very good points about edging. Its something you can learn and it takes practice. But the practice is lots of fun.

I definitely agree with the part about not looking at porn or having a fantasy going in your head. Look at your penis and watch what you are doing. Try to be conscious of the feeling in your penis and balls, with each stroke.

Cordwainer mentioned the "I'm-about-to-cum" sensation. That's probably a little different for each of us, and its a feeling you want to be able to anticipate. Doesn't do you much good to get the "I'm-about-to-cum" feeling just as you cum. There are two main indicators for me. First, I feel my balls tightening up and my sack moving up closer under my penis. Second, my penis begins to pulse a bit on its own. That's hard to describe, but if I take my hand off my penis, it is actually waving up and down.

If I feel I've gone a bit too far towards the point of no return, I grip the base of my penis with my thumb on top and my index fingertip right underneath and squeeze until the feeling subsides. It also helps a bit to rhythmically squeeze my balls and gently tug them downwards.

[lubed_left_hand]

For me, I love to just sit with my hand on the base of my cock. I might go onto a yahoo or msn chat, or into an adult chatroom. Shaking it most times is all it takes to get me to gush precum...pretty heavy sometimes. By the time I finally decide it's time to go for it, and after a few minutes of full stroking pour some lube on my cock....I still hold out for awhile. The orgams are phenomenal!

[SylviaD]

I think this edging thing is harder for girls to do than guys. I have tried it a lot of times and it is so hard to judge when to stop. maybe it is easier for guys but for me my orgasm sneaks up on me and sometimes before I realize it i'm cumming!! I know I have to get close then back off, but i just kind of glaze over and it can be SO hard to stop myself. im still trying though b/c i want to get a handle on this. I hate the idea that a guy can do something that I can't. its just that when im close to orgasm my willpower just melts and I keep going.

[lubed_left_hand]

Sylvia maybe you need someone to lend a hand and work with you on this...

[soxfan]

the only way i do it is edging..its the best