Niagra wrote:When you were between 16 and say 22 and dating what were you looking for mainly in that relationship? In other words, what was you biggest reason for being in the relationship?
Mainly, a brain. I was tired of dating guys who seemed like they were pretty intelligent, and it just turned out that they just knew the right thing at the right time. Really, what goes on in a person's head is what matters to me. I mean, yeah, looks are a nice touch, but unecessary. It's always preferred to have a relationship with someone smart and who could read you for who you really are...not a strict focus on the physcial or verbal. Because, a) the physical is kind of temporary, and b) the verbal, for bad relationships, is a bunch of crap. So, really, it's how well the other person understands you that matters. That's what I call a relationship.