1st time..

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Edit: I had no choice but to remove this post as the person said they were 17. I realize that he may be 18 tomarrow , but until that time it cannot be here. I also realize that he was concerned because he was not able to maintain an errection during his first intercouce encounter and that is an important topic, but not until you are 18. Can we discuss it. The people here have made a good reply so now that the offensive underage material has been removed others may get the reassuring suggestions and understand that this happens to most and is indeed very normal. ...Niagra

[ElEsEmCee]

I don't know if there's anything wrong, but in my limited experience that happened to me once, when I felt really anxious or stressed (or however you'd like to put it) about what was happening. I think they call it 'performance anxiety.'

But, that's just me. If anyone with more knowledge or experience knows better, I'd love to hear what they think. (I hate giving wrong advice, so help me give it properly, guys... lol)

[SAVANNAH]

This may sound a bit trite but I'll say it anyway. In my opinion you are plagued by a condition that most men would give just about anything to have again. Namely youthfull inexperience.

The chances of anything being physically wrong with you are so slight that I wouldn't give it a second thought. Relax, calm down and remember that you have a long life in which to perfect your love making technique. Your biggest enemy at the moment is your own imagination. The first time can be emotionally stressfull and that kind of distraction can be debilitating to an erection.

Chances are your partner is as young and inexperienced as you are. In that case she probably doesn't know what to expect or how to help. If this should happen again in the future (which I highly doubt) just resume foreplay or making out with your lady friend. When your erection returns try a position that is less demanding on you. Try with her on top. Let her grasp your penis at the base and squeeze while she lowers herself onto it. That squeeze should help maintain your hardness while entering her. Chances are that once inside her you'll have no difficulties staying hard until you climax.

Just remember to stay relaxed and not to put so much emotional stress upon yourself.

[jackenov]

There's nothing wrong with you except your youth. Up until my early 20's it happened to me whenever I had sex with a girl for the first time but on the next date it was always okay and it'll probably be the same for you. Just take your time with the foreplay and wait until you're both nicely relaxed.

[LoveThyself!]

The one thing wrong I can tell you straight off is that you aren't 18. You shouldn't even be in this site at all, so please don't make any more posts as they will all be taken down. And don't return until you are of legal age. Read the rules.