by delicious105 » Wed Aug 22, 2007 2:40 pm
Don't know the reason for the silence. Could be anything from embarassment to thinking that it's no one's business. And then there's the perception that good girls don't and if you do, you're not a lady. Guys are almost expected to be overtly sexual (boys will be boys...).
I have struggled for years with my needs vs. what I [i]should[/i] want, need, etc. It's a vicious circle. I give up. Loving to self pleasure is sure better for me than overeating, drinking to excess, doing drugs or being a spend-thrift.