so i've done a bit of poking around - decided to get one for me and one for him ; )
for him, there's only two options that seem remotely interesting. there's the
fleshlight, which looks ok but is basically a hand substitute. there's another site that looks super cool called rubbot. that one's not available until the end of the year but from the description i think it'll be the
best male sex toy out there (that's a link by the way - sorry still learning . . . ).
for me, i'm interested in the butterfly - anyone tried that one?