Masturbation in Your 40s

[raincoaster]

Well, I'm in my 50's, so here's my answers.

Do you last as long before you cum?
I've been jacking off all my life, and I guess control and technique comes with practice. I can jack off and cum in under two minutes, or I can go on for a l-o-n-g time. Depends on how much time I have, and what I want. Most mornings I jack off before I shower, more out of long-time habit than anything else, and that's invariably standing up and a "quickie".


Does your cock get as hard and stay as hard as it used to?
My cock has never been huge, (4 1/2" soft, a bit over 6" hard), but it still gets as hard as it ever did. A boner may not last as long as it once did, but with just the slightest bit of maintenance, no problem.

Is the whole experience still as good for you now as it was in your younger days?
Absolutely as good as it ever was, and probably better in a lot of ways.

Are there any new pleasures to look forward to?
I'm one of those who has always masturbated exactly the same way, ever since I was a kid. Thumb on top of my cock, two fingers under the shaft, gripping just behind the head. What changes is now I enjoy masturbating much slower. Remember as a kid, it was like a piston pounding up and down, trying to come as fast as possible? Now its as much the journey as the destination.

Does masturbation get more exciting or does it get boring as you get older?
I think if masturbation gets boring for anyone, male or female, check your pulse. You may be dead!

[jocelyn.secret]

Well I'm a woman in her late 40s and all forms of sex have never been better! I always have had a high libido but about a year ago I got put on hormones for health reasons and ever since it has been in overdrive.

I masturbate usually more than once a day - the only days I don't are the rare occasions I am too tired from travelling and work, and then the next day I just have to catch up. Even on days when I have had sex with a lover I still usually masturbate - the sex just makes me hornier!

I find that now my mind is completely free to wander and fantasise about absolutely anything whereas when younger there were areas that would have shocked me if I had even half though of them. Now I am old enough to know anything in the mind is ok, even if "in real life" it would be ill advised and I just enjoy whatever kinky fantasy my mind throws up.

My age and experience also means I fully understand my body and that makes for so many more things I can do that are pleasurable. There are times I will just masturbate using one erogenous zone for instance - maybe my nipples, maybe just my g-spot, maybe just my arse. In the right mood any can make me cum played with right. In fact sometimes I can cum just from thoughts.

I also love sharing my thoughts on here - so sexy to think of others knowing I am so turned. Just think if you are in England or travelling I might be that woman across from you on the train or plane....

[ohkelly]

I'm 40, and I'm still exploring new horizons. I've been able to come twice in a row for as long as I can remember, so long as I was very aroused to begin with. Not too long ago, I came three times in a row for the first time, and then a fourth time right after that. Four orgasms in a row, on the same erection. Then, six in a row. These are fully-ejaculatory, spasmodic orgasms, not the bullshit tantric stop-and-go, leak-a-little-semen-and-call-it-an-orgasm-crap. Ten is my best so far. If you're curious, you can see me come ten times in a row over at xtube. Search for dwstan. Of course, the orgasms are visually less impressive as I persevere despite depleted reservoirs of spunk. Often, it's just a barely-discernible drop of cloudy fluid. But it still feels great!

[BigBob]

I'd answer, but I'm too busy playing, tee hee

[gold47]

I am 47,I can get as hard as i ever did,the head of my erection gets bigger than when i was younger,the pleasure in masturbating is more intense,my cum is thicker than when i was young so i can feel it pumping up through my erection better.When i was young i would jack off,a little tingling,a little throbbing and cum,now shaking hips quivering,leg muscles tightning up and right before i cum my mid section arches up,my whole body responds.

[cupcake40]

Thanks for the great responses; sounds like I've got a lot to look forward to!

[mac_46_46]

I'm 61 and I still love to jackoff. I usually average about 5 times a week, sometimes more, not very often less than that. So if you want to know when you are too old to jackoff, you will have ask someome olderer than me.

[shady41]

I don't think one is EVER too old to jack off (or jill off, for that matter).

[gpmgsf]

Im nearly 45 and am wanking myself off just as often now as when I was younger and no signs of changing, thank you very much

[saltydog]

with all the attention given to the Prostate these days, I'm really taking time massaging mine,looking forward to my first Aneros.

[iluv2jack]

50 yr old male horndog here. still jack off 2 hott loads daily. i have stamina....lol ,with the internet, i can't stop cumming, too much porn, too many gorgeous chicks with great bodys to cum for. know where i'am cumming from? [/i]

[Aquarius]

I'm a 40 something female who's been masturbating since the age of 12.
I love to masturbate and reach orgasm at least once a day.
To be totally honest my orgasms have got better the older I've got!

[nighttrain]

When I was young, I could take my time with a woman, but cum on demand. Now, I actually make my wife impatient with the amount of time I can take, and I just can't dial up the finish line on demand. At one point in my life, I started taking zoloft and I found that it added additional stamina where it wasn't even needed. I might have replaced the six orgasms of my youth with one, but I think the end result is equally satisying. It's still all unforced, so I certainly can't complain.

[ajs_daddy_48131]

I will be 45 in a month, and I still regularly masturbate at least once or twice a day. I can honestly say that I enjoy it just as much now, if not moreso (no longer any guilt hang-ups), as when I was a horny teenager!

[cockinhand UK]

I'm 47 and I definitely spend much more time masturbating now than when I did when I was younger. I average around 9-10 wanks a week and probably spend 20-25 hours a week with my cock in my hand. I must say that I enjoy my masturbating sessions more now than ever and I haven't noticed any decline in the hardness of my erection or the power and amount of my ejaculation, despite my advancing years! Hopefully I shall continue to enjoy my favourite hobby well into old age