Question for the boys from a girl

[jocelyn.secret]

If you have read my other posts you will know I often wonder and fantasise what it must feel like to have a cock. Here is a challange to the men here: describe to me how a cock feels. How does it feel to get an erection? What does it feel like to penetrate a woman intimately in the sexual act?

[unibet]

The short answer is: pretty damn awesome. For most of the time, it's like an arm: you can see it, but you can't really feel it unless something is wrong. But whenever you start to get hard, you can really feel it. Imagine tensing up your arm and you're getting pretty close. Except it's a more natural feeling - you're never straining to keep it up! You can feel it when it's hard because there's a pretty major stiffness going on there.

You can feel it start to swell a bit, then become heavier, then it starts to point skyward as the hardness sets in. It's good.

As for penetration...it's one of the most awesome things you can do with it! When masturbating, you're constantly stimulating different parts of the penis. But with penetration, the whole penis is getting stimulated by something warm, wet, and really quite satisfying. A hard cock is pretty sensitive, but when you use it for penetration, you get the best kind of sensation. It's no wonder some guys don't last long...!

I got hard writing this post...time to visit the "i'm masturbating now" thread!

[jayboy099]

It is a curse and a pleasure ... when riding my bike, it keeps rubbing against my pants and causing uncomfortable friction ... but most of the time, it is just hanging there, out of the way, out of your mind ... when a girl walks by showing something, or when you begin to think about things, the feeling of it beginning to rise is pretty cool ... but the greatest feeling, (even better than masturbation, if you can believe it) is that moment when it slids silently into that waiting, damp pussy ... nothing is more exciting than that ... then you begin to rock back and forth, rubbing that foreskin along the pussy walls ... god, its just indescribable ... so, the obvious question is, what does it feel like to have a cock inside of that pussy??? I know we'd all love to know ...

[jocelyn.secret]

It is a curse and a pleasure ... when riding my bike, it keeps rubbing against my pants and causing uncomfortable friction ... but most of the time, it is just hanging there, out of the way, out of your mind ... when a girl walks by showing something, or when you begin to think about things, the feeling of it beginning to rise is pretty cool ... but the greatest feeling, (even better than masturbation, if you can believe it) is that moment when it slids silently into that waiting, damp pussy ... nothing is more exciting than that ... then you begin to rock back and forth, rubbing that foreskin along the pussy walls ... god, its just indescribable ... so, the obvious question is, what does it feel like to have a cock inside of that pussy??? I know we'd all love to know ...

I thought someone might ask this.

My feelings about my pussy are in someways the way the guys have described their cocks - most of the time I don't notice them or think about them until I am aroused. When I do it's hard to describe the feeling - sort of a warm tingle is best I can do although it is not really a tingle like pins and needles more just a sort of awareness really. I know we girls say we fell wet and I do get VERY wet, but it is not really a feeling of wetness like wearing a swimming costume, more that warm urgent feeling again. Sometimes when I am very, very wet (actually quite a common occurance at the moment) I can feel the wetness from my panties against my skin and that is really sexy a few times I've even felt it trickle down my legs but that is pretty rare.

As for penetration apart from being wonderful and somehow deeply fulfilling the best way I can describe it is a bit like shitting but totally different! The first time I had sex it felt odd but not at all painful as it seems for a lot of girls. I was being opened so wide and I had no real references and for a moment it really was a lot like a shit(!) but also wonderful and a deep instinct in me wanted to feel it deeper and deeper. Over the years since I have had men of all shapes and sizes and quite a lot of toys of all shapes and sizes too - the actual arousal from penetration for me is much more mental that physical - my clit is the most sensitive organ by a long way - but I really do want that deep feeling of being full to enjoy the other feelings to the full. I love the feeling when I guy cums deep in me - a sort of warmness and occasionally I feel the spirts touch my cervix (I think that's what it is, I am lost in the moment and not really that analyitical!) which so sexy. If I cum with a guy inside it feels wonderful and like to hold him there until I come down - then when he does withdraw since I am no longer lost in arousal it does feel a bit like that shit again(!) but in a nice way non toilet way. Finally I just love the feeling of his cum trickling out after - I think I am quite rare in this though: a lot of my girlfriends say they hate it.

Now after all that I am going to have to go and take care of some things

[Susie]

Thanks for your answers, guys. I too would love a cock, even if it was just for one day, just to see what all the fuss is about!!

[jayboy099]

susie ... I, like most guys, I bet, used to pull my dick between my legs, so it "disappeared" and then I knew what girls "looked like", but never what they felt like ... so, I guess I would love to have a real pussy for a day or two ... trouble is, I bet I would let every guy fuck me, so I could feel what it was like! I am hard as a rock as I write this ...

[Tazz41]

Its quit sensational to have a cock. Like the others im not always aware its there until I start getting aroused. But then I become keenly aware of it. Feeling it grow and becoming uncomfortable in my pants. I then have to adjust it so its bearable. Ultimately I need to release it to have it touched by me or someone else. I luv seeing it dribble a bit and milk it for more. When I penetrate the pussy its awesome, The head spreads it open and I push forward slowly to get he whole warm wet and tight feeling. I usually hold it in a few seconds savoring the feeling before beginning to thrust. I especially like to cum inside, then stay in until I start getting soft.Then withdrawing feeling my juices mixed with hers trickling out and down my shaft, flowing over my balls. Hope that helps,but now I got that uncomfortable feeling again and am releasing it for my own solo pleasure.

[Jizzo]

I'll try to describe accurately.

How a cock feels? When not in use it feels like any other part of the body.
How does it feel to get an erection? Point with your finger at something. How does your finger feel when you harden it? The same thing happens to our cocks when erect, just that it feels better.
What does it feel like to penetrate a woman intimately in the sexual act? I'm a virgin, so I don't know. I'll let the other guys with experience answer you.

Keep in mind that girls have "cocks" too. It's called clitoris. How do you girls feel when you rub it? Same thing happens when we jack off.

[rodpumper]

This may be one of the best threads in the history of this site. Jocelyn, you are simply awesome. I get so hard reading your posts.

Speaking of that and how it feels -

I absolutely love it when my cock gets so hard it's begging to be stroked. It feels ten feet long and the head feels like it's going to burst.

Let me add my agreement with the previous posters' descriptions of the entry of a cock into a nice warm, wet pussy. There is no better feeling on earth as your cock is engulfed. You strain to push it in farther and farther. Every nerve from the head down through the shaft is stimulated as you slide in and out. And then when you cum, as you feel your jism rise up the shaft and shoot like a rocket leaving the launchpad - it's so indescribably awesome that sometimes you almost faint. All positions are good in their own way, but to me the maximum pleasure on the full shaft is either when my wife rides me like a cowgirl or I stick it in her doggie style.

[Susie]

When I ask my husband what it feels like, he always says 'very nice'. I told him to try to expalin that. He said he feels like 'I'm in charge'.

Can you guys understand what he means by that?

[stellarBATE]

I guess maybe there is a comparison between a pussy that is not moist enough to a cock that isn't working right, but somehow, I think men are the inferior sex. Inferior in many ways. Mechanochemically, emotionally -- which may explain why men can get caught up in compensatory behaviors. Bragging, puffery, machismo. Inside, they know they're vulnerable. Likely to get it wrong. Getting it right sometimes means shutting down emotions. It isn't fair. We have to get erect to please a woman with a cock, at least inside a vagina. Women, again, maybe I'm wrong -- but a good lubricant can fix most of their issues unless there is something not working with their libidos. Guys, sex is complex whether they admit it or not. Are we long enough, hard enough, strong enough? Issues of anatomy that can't be changed. The ladies can lie back and enjoy if they want. Feels like most the weight is on us to perform.

I think about the "curse and blessing" analogy in a different post. I've heard it said that during sex, a man spends all of his time trying not to have an orgasm and women have to work at having an orgasm. It's like that. The sensitivity issue can be unfair. You wish you could go on and on but nature works against you. Every stroke in a woman's pussy, the closer to having an orgasm -- and losing libido. When things aren't working right, anxiety, health, other issues can cause periods of impotence. I was impotent for three years once. I couldn't even masturbate. Maybe I'm wrong but I can't think of a parallel to women having the issue of performance anxiety that men do. Of course, if a mate has been patient, over time -- you can hit your stride, maybe even improve against the odds. Stay in longer, bring her closer to orgasm -- if you're lucky -- orgasm together.

Penetration. It can be slightly painful for men also at first if both are not fully ready or well lubricated. But after the initial thrust, it's like being a warm wet glove. Primordial. Somehow, through hormones working to soften the internal tissue of a woman so she can expand and grow, this is heightened during about the third month of a woman's pregnancy. It feels (it is) even softer, nearly electric.

But, I think about the information suggesting that a woman most sensitive area is her clitoris. Imagine that sensitivity being spread over something the size of a cock head and you'd have it. And hence the disadvantage. Sex is about NOT giving in, and holding back the whole time. Give in too much...boom, it's over.
I don't like that part of it. I want it to last longer not only for my pleasure but the pleasure of my partner [of blessed memory].
It isn't I don't like being who I am, I just don't like the disadvantages of male sex. I guess that why I'm, here. Masturbation is far more controllable -- the art of letting go -- is literally letting go. If you go slow when a mate might prefer it faster at a certain moment in the act of sex, it's a let down for the woman. Masturbation -- there's no one else to disappoint if you're not paired properly. My wife and I had a great sex life. Erotica, mutual masturbation, masturbating her after my own orgasm -- she always had her orgasm. I saw to that.

But what does it feel like to have a penis? For me, during an erection it feels -- heavy. Tingling, pulsing thing that has a mind of it's own and not a damn bit of conscience.

I have the other fantasy -- I want to be a woman, making love to a woman. I want the clothing, the "full body" experience that is the case for women. Everywhere is sensitive to touch. I want that "emotional set point" that is different. I dream about being female at times -- but I don't like men. Oh, I enjoy the idea of getting cum, playing in it, the taste -- I just can't imagine going to the BS of being around a guy to get it. Funny conflicted part of my libido. I did have a boyfriend once. He told me I fucked like a girl. Said he'd never known a man that did that. Gay guys like guys for them being guys. <shrug> I have a better time with women. My late wife liked my inner woman.

Guys -- it's so penis oriented. So fleeting.

[Wanker023]

I love this thread.

[SAVANNAH]

Apologies to J-S but I must take issue with some of her statements pertaining to a womans feeling while being penetrated during intercourse. For my personal feelings the comparison of being penetrated to that of "shitting" does a great diservice to a womans vagina. Unlike the anus the vagina has no sphincter muscle at its terminus. At least mine and the women I know don't. (can't speak for J-S's since I've never been there)

At this point, at least, we have some common ground with you guys because you can certainly relate to the feeling of something entering your anus. While initially it can be extremely uncomfortable even painfull eventually those feelings can change to the pleasurable. At least in some people it can. Others never ever can enjoy or feel anything but disgust towards that kind of behavior.

The vagina, unlike the anus, was designed to let things enter and exit. Initial penetration of the vagina can also be extremely painfull. This can primarily be attributed to the destruction of the hyman or cherry. You know? The little flesh obstacle at the entrance of the vagina that in some cultures determines if a woman is a virgin or not. Once that door is breached its a matter of allowing the vagina to accomodate the mans penis.

The vagina is very accomodating as you should know. Its also called the birth canal in a pregnant woman. This accomodation extends to passing an unborn child thru it during deliver. An achievment not unlike sucking a golf ball thru a garden hose. Now here is where the rub or rather the lack of it comes in. After birthing children it is all but impossible for a womans vagina to return to its original dimensions. That means no more tight fit around your dick and therefore less stimulation of the glans penis during intercourse. Now if humans only performed intercourse for reproduction, like most other animals, there would be little problem.

Having sex only once or twice a year at most would make most males so arroused when they did get to do it they could probably ejaculate in an orifice the size of a culvert and be thrilled at the prospect. Not humans though. We copulate for recreational puposes and do it frequently. Very frequently usually. Therefore that vagina stretched by the miracle of life is often relegated to second rate status. So what that means is that for very selfish reasons many men can be very judgemental about the feeling their own spouses vagina can provide for them.

I have wandered a little from the original topic. For that I apologize. Basically the sex act for this woman is very pleasant. The fullness. The sense of singularity with my man during intercourse. The ragged, jangling nerve ending tension just prior to orgasm. The absolute release of tension and the inner joy felt during orgasm is as close in words as I can get to describing the sensations of being fucked.

[footman]

I too would love a cock, even if it was just for one day, just to see what all the fuss is about!!

My wife says the same thing! I think it would be an incredible experience to be able to switch places for a day.

Can't add much to the commentary about what it feels like to have a cock other maybe adding how visually arousing it can be to see yourself get hard, to see pre-cum oozing, running, dripping out of the end, and in the case of masturbation to watch your cumshots when you climax. Very visually exciting and rewarding.