Paying your girlfriend/wife for sex....

[Alan]

....curious to know if I am the only one who does this.

I have never paid someone for sex, but in the past few years I have developed a fantasy to pay a woman to fuck me. If I was single I would probably persue my fantasy, however, I have a girlfriend and I am not into cheating.

My gf and I have an intense sex life, but my sex drive is much higher than hers. As a result, I have shared my "paying for sex" fantasy with her to see if she would be willing to play along and make some extra cash at the same time. I was very pleased with her "show me the money" response.

We don't do this often because we are both aware that something like this could easily get out of control and fuck up a relationship. However, my fantasy to trade cash for sex has been extremely amplified by my gf's willingness to fuck for cash; and it appears that it turns her on just as much or more than it does me. The sex, fantasy and cash has stayed between just the two of us, yet, we both seem to get great rewards from it.

I am curious to know if other couples have done this kind of thing or if anyone has any comments they would like to share.

[luvheels]

I never actually paid her the money but me and an ex-girlfriend had a little sex game (one of many) that we'd play where she would dress up and pretend to be a hooker or stripper. My favorite outfit was the leather mini-skirt and matching "Pretty Woman" thigh-high stiletto heel boots. It always ended in some really hot sex sometimes going as far as driving around and finding a dark place to park and have sex in the car.

[SAVANNAH]

Big mistake IMHO. Get her accustomed to taking money from you for sex and the next thing you know pow! Shes taking money from any Tom, Dick or Harry that has a handfull of cash.

Don't p'shaw me too quickly. People can be conditioned to respond to specific stimuli just like Mr. Pavlovs dogs could. I just think you have to walk a real fine line between sexual fantasy and sexual fact. To be forwarned is to ne forarmed.

[jocelyn.secret]

....curious to know if I am the only one who does this.

I have never paid someone for sex, but in the past few years I have developed a fantasy to pay a woman to fuck me. If I was single I would probably persue my fantasy, however, I have a girlfriend and I am not into cheating.

My gf and I have an intense sex life, but my sex drive is much higher than hers. As a result, I have shared my "paying for sex" fantasy with her to see if she would be willing to play along and make some extra cash at the same time. I was very pleased with her "show me the money" response.

We don't do this often because we are both aware that something like this could easily get out of control and fuck up a relationship. However, my fantasy to trade cash for sex has been extremely amplified by my gf's willingness to fuck for cash; and it appears that it turns her on just as much or more than it does me. The sex, fantasy and cash has stayed between just the two of us, yet, we both seem to get great rewards from it.

I am curious to know if other couples have done this kind of thing or if anyone has any comments they would like to share.

i have played this game with lovers a lot and it's a huge turn on for me. I dress really tartily and then let the pick me up in a bar as if I were a real whore - and yes they have to pay for real!

Once when waiting for a lover in a bar in Paris I got chatted up by another guy who asked me the price. I said I was booked for the evening but if he wanted me another time it would €1,000 and he didn't bat an eyelid, just told me he'd be there the next couple of nights. I was there with my lover so no chance of following up but I was SO trempted to do that trick "for real" just once. It still always gets me so wet to think of it.

[Alan]

Big mistake IMHO. Get her accustomed to taking money from you for sex and the next thing you know pow! Shes taking money from any Tom, Dick or Harry that has a handfull of cash.

Don't p'shaw me too quickly. People can be conditioned to respond to specific stimuli just like Mr. Pavlovs dogs could. I just think you have to walk a real fine line between sexual fantasy and sexual fact. To be forwarned is to ne forarmed.

SAVANNAH, I fully agree with you. I don't want to get into details, but I am aware that this sort of thing would and should not happen in a normal healthy rlationship.

[happystroker]

I haven't paid for sex, but I did have an affair with an older woman who WANTED to pay me, and I have to say that she was on to something--I found it very, very HOT and really 'performed' for her. She also felt free to indulge some of her kinky fetishes (paying for sex was one), which I enjoyed completely.

I was in Greece one college summer, and a boy offered to take me to a whore. I'd never been and was curious. When we got there, she was pretty, soft and alone. I had no desire to "use" her. The boy, it turned out, wanted to watch us have sex. I paid them both, and found my way back to town.

I had worked over to Europe on a freighter and when we were in Hamburg, the crew brought a couple of whores on board. One of them came into my room by mistake. I'm pretty gentle and nice, and she felt relaxed, at last, and didn't want to leave. I was naked under the sheets, and I said I had to go pee. Amazingly, she was embarrassed to see me. She came back a few times before we left port, just to rest between guys....