Am i Gay or Bi..

[Handfull]

I always had this question in my head, because my dick kinda responds for both men and women, but, i only had sex with women and i never wanted to have sex with a guy...But, i love when a guy sucks my dick and i even love to masturbate before guys(and gals)...

So, what guys...

[shakeysbum]

same here handful. love girls & pussy but a hard cock does me make very horny. not bi or gay just know my sexuality. i think alot of straight men won't admit to watching other cocks but actually do enjoy the turn on it provides.

[raincoaster]

I don't think the fact your cock "responds for both men and women" necessarily makes you gay or bi. I'm a middle-aged straight male, have a great sex life with my wife, and certainly enjoy looking at women's bodies. But I also enjoy looking at men's cocks (I think we all do). We are all here because we enjoy masturbating. As a guy, masturbation is about my cock, your cock and other guy's cocks (that is, as a male, its a cock thing.) I haven't had a guy suck my cock or jack me off since my teens, but I do have a jo-buddy and we both jack off in front of each other. Part of that is looking at each other's bodies and cocks, and touching each other (not jacking each other off, at least not yet, but just touching and feeling).

I don't think jacking off is about sexual orientation, but simply making about making your cock feel good. And if your cock responds to both men and women for the purposes of jacking off, so what? There is a lot of interest on this forum in the pics/vids section, and that's mostly about guys looking at other guy's cocks and commenting on them. Its part of the masturbation thing.

Anyway, just my two cents worth. Can always pm to discuss further if you want.

[dicklion]

Open minded sexual man, THERE IS A LABEL>

I say Bi just to be easy but I will have sex with a guy, girl a couple- will get hard seeing a girl or guy masturbate and love a guy sucking me off---

[SavoryIce]

I think the reaction of sexual arousal in the human psyche is (possibly) activated by the presence of both genders, because mostly thinking of one has you thinking of the other. My boyfriend admits that a woman by herself is arousing, but the simple action of a man taking action in her further stimulates that thought. The same applies for me. If I want to fantasize about a man to masturbate over, I may need the presence of a woman for him to interact with to manifest some reality from that fantasy and thus make it that more arousing. These are just my thoughts, though. My friend says she can masturbate to a guy alone, but I never know who tells the truth and who doesn't.

So, I wouldn't dismiss it as an altered view on sexuality, but rather an assisting stimulus. Just because your arousing thoughts involve men doesn't mean your conscious mind desires that. You always have the decision, and you can always decide to do what you believe is most comfortable for yourself.