Is on-line chatting and masturbating cheating?

[navital]

Just wondering about people's thoughts about being faithful in a relationship. If you find a guy or girl on-line, maybe on this site, and you engage in masturbation chat, or go to the next step and have cam-to-cam masturbation session, is that being unfaithful to a spouse or b/f or g/f? What if it is just exhibitionism, and you like to j/o or jill with someone else watching? What if you just watch, kind of like watching live one-on-one porn? Just curious as to how you all feel about this and if you have any stories on point.

[Susie]

If you put yourself in the position of your partner, would you be happy if she was chatting or camming to another guy? I know I wouldn't be.

[rdl30]

Just depends on your partner. My wife could care less, but I have friends that would get a divorce over it.

[Tazz41]

I really wouldnt mind if my wife did it. In fact im turned on by the idea. But she wouldnt do it.
Over the years when we dont have sex very often I have turned to cybersex to fullfill my need,before the internet I just jacked off to images in my head and in mags. Much like I did before marrying. So no I dont think its cheating, its just fantasy because chances are real slim, next to none you will ever meet that person on the other keyboard.

[gpmgsf]

My wife knows that I wank off over the internet and is cool about it, (she even gives me her thongs to cum in!) What she doesnt like is if I do C2C with anyone, male or female!

Her main argument is that with C2C, its with a real person, therefore, by default, having real sex with them and thus cheating on her. Wanking off to porn sites is different to her mind, because it is a fantasy and therefore very little, if any chance of it happening for real, she, the wife, thus feels "safe"

[footman]

I flirted with this type of experience last month. A gal with an incredibly high sex drive started PMing me through another forum, and though honest, the convo's quickly got pretty hot and heavy. We moved our convo's to IMing (which of course could involve webcamming). I even asked her if she'd consider getting a webcam, which she did not have, and she said yes. But I started feeling quite guilty about it and shortly thereafter, broke off the convo's with her. So I guess my answer is yes, I consider it cheating, and could not do it.