Next step?

[jake12358]

Hey, been reading for a while and i had a question to those more experianced. Me and my significent other have been dating off and on now for about a year. We haven't had sex yet (and neither of us want to...yet) but just mutual masturbating is getting kinda slow. Any ideas for my honey and me to help try and spice it up a little?

Thanks to anyone with an idea

[SavoryIce]

Well, in terms of mutual msturbation, me and my boyfriend would slowly take it up in notches, as in what positions we would take, passive masturbation (with a counterforce, like a pillow or a stool), how many orgasms we would achieve and in turn how long we could hold off our orgasms. Since our sessions became longer and longer, my boyfriend delayed his cum until the end of the session, so usually I did the same and delayed, taking as much stimulation as I could before cumming became like an instinct. Sometimes, I would cum about 3 or 4 times because I could, but men can usually only cum once in full orgasm and then with a secondary cum that isn't as strong. Then it stops...apparently. So, I was being polite in delaying my cum, which, quite frankly, was much more arousing and very satisfying as we concluded our sometimes 2 and 3 hour sessions.

However, it depends on how passionate you are about helping one another masturbate. Me and my boyfriends were terrible at the start, and learned through experimenting and just having fun, really.

[Zipgun]

I would also suggest browsing thru our "Techniques" forum for some unique tips and tricks from our own members. Best thing imho would be for both of you to communicate, knocking down any personal sexual etc.. barriers opens up many doors.

Good luck and have fun.