Masturbating with another Adult Male Friend

[happystroker]

We've heard from 2 nudists in this thread, does the comfort level of nudism lead to these things more likely happening with nudists? I know from my experiences with friends in my teens, the biggest hurdle was just getting nude in front of each other. For nudists that is taken care of right off the bat.

Hi, I've masturbated in nudist situations, too, and yes, it's made easier, and there is an acceptance of bodies and sex. My first experiences of that sort were when I was sixteen, and had sex with both men and women.

I've never "fallen in love" with a guy, but I've definitely loved having sex with male friends. For several years I had a j/o buddy, and one of the things we'd do is go to nude beaches and meet other guys to play with, or to play in the dunes while others watched. It was very casual and open and enjoyable. He was very straight. We had j/o'd every week for a year before touching, then it was another year before I got up the courage to tell him I was dying to suck him. Gradually, we realized that we really liked sex with other men! Still, it was a long time before we'd go to a nude beach or gay area and feel comfortable. When we finally did, it was REALLY hot--the best of both worlds, straight on the inside and gay on the outside, you could say.

[raincoaster]

quote]We've heard from 2 nudists in this thread, does the comfort level of nudism lead to these things more likely happening with nudists? I know from my experiences with friends in my teens, the biggest hurdle was just getting nude in front of each other. For nudists that is taken care of right off the bat.[/quote]

As a nudist since my teens, I think that being comfortable being nude among other does facilitate these things happening. Being able to be naked with other guys can be a big hurdle to overcome. I know we have all had experiences being naked in gym showers, locker rooms, etc., but that's not the same as being able to relax naked with other males at a beach, in a home etc. However, among traditional nudists, there is still the "unwritten rule" that everything is non-sexual, and that as nudists we don't really look at other nudist's private parts. To me, that's nonsense if we're honest. Of course we look. And that requires yet another level of being comfortable. To be able to sit around naked and talk about penises, and topics like masturbation, erections, etc. Now picture yourself sitting around naked with your friends, and most (if not all of you) have erections. Could you still be comfortable. There are a lot of extra steps, but you need to get to at least this stage. But being a nudist, beingused to being naked with others, definitely gives you a very big headstart.

[andylawrence]

Ive masturbated with two different friends. Theres nothin like it. Its the ultimate in male bonding. The one friend and I jerked each together for a year before we progressed to jacking each other. The other one and I jacked each other from the begining. We're all straight and have gfs or wives. But as much as I like male/female sex, there is sumthing super-erotic about jerking with your buddy. Theres also nothing like jerking your buddy when hes going to cum. Especially feeling his cock throb when he starts to shoot and knowing your in total control of him and you just made him cum.

[C5]

As a nudist since my teens, I think that being comfortable being nude among other does facilitate these things happening. Being able to be naked with other guys can be a big hurdle to overcome. I know we have all had experiences being naked in gym showers, locker rooms, etc., but that's not the same as being able to relax naked with other males at a beach, in a home etc. However, among traditional nudists, there is still the "unwritten rule" that everything is non-sexual, and that as nudists we don't really look at other nudist's private parts. To me, that's nonsense if we're honest. Of course we look. And that requires yet another level of being comfortable. To be able to sit around naked and talk about penises, and topics like masturbation, erections, etc. Now picture yourself sitting around naked with your friends, and most (if not all of you) have erections. Could you still be comfortable. There are a lot of extra steps, but you need to get to at least this stage. But being a nudist, beingused to being naked with others, definitely gives you a very big headstart.

That's very interesting and brings up things I never thought of. As teens when we were doing the "I'll show you mine if you show me yours" thing it was the nudity that was the big hurdle. We had been nude in locker room situations, but nobody would admit to sneaking peaks. So this was going to be a show to show and we'd have erections. So once we showed and both had our erect penises on display for each other, touching and masturbating together just happened. Nudity seemed very sexual.

So in a setting where nudity is less sexual, or supposed to be non-sexual, there are other steps. So going from seeing a friend erect to masturbating was a natural step for us, it's a huge step for nudists. I would expect all nudists to check out each other's private parts, they are on display. Why would that be any different than me noticing someone's nose or eyes?

So are there a lot of instances where you'd be sitting around nude with your friends at a nude beach and most would have erections? Would you comment to each other about your erections? At what age was this? And how do the wives/girlfriends feel about their partners being erect? Is that still a big no no on nude beaches?

Sorry for all the questions. I've never been to a nude beach and I'm interested in all of this stuff. Especially when or how the nudity goes from mostly non-sexual to sexual.

[happystroker]

. But being a nudist, beingused to being naked with others, definitely gives you a very big headstart.

...... Nudity seemed very sexual.....

So are there a lot of instances where you'd be sitting around nude with your friends at a nude beach and most would have erections? Would you comment to each other about your erections? At what age was this? And how do the wives/girlfriends feel about their partners being erect? Is that still a big no no on nude beaches?

Sorry for all the questions. I've never been to a nude beach and I'm interested in all of this stuff. Especially when or how the nudity goes from mostly non-sexual to sexual.

Well, my first experience of nudism was when a teacher and his wife took me to a nudist camp when I was sixteen. We hung out with everyone for a while, then went to a special swingers' cabin, and had sex for a day and a night....so "nudity seemed very sexual" there, too. Some nudist camps have this sort of thing, or it happens in folks trailers or cabins. Most are very strict about displays in public.

At the beach that my buddy and I went to, most of the beach was fine for kids. There was rated PG, for both guys and girls and couples. There, you would see people playing with each other as the mood carried them...and everyone respected their space and 'privacy'. At another area, in the dunes, guys would go to meet. Sometimes just meet and go for a stroll, and sometimes for X-rated activity, perhaps with others joining in, or to watch....

[raincoaster]

Hi C5,

Certainly don't mind the questions, and nothing I mind talking about. There are two different situations here. One, when you are at the beach with your wife or girlfriend, and two, when you are at the beach with male friends. Sitting around naked in a group with erections is mostly a "group male" thing. Sitting around with your male friends naked at the beach, the erections start to appear depending on what you are talking about. Talk about sex, masturbation, nude experiences with others, etc., and the cocks usually start to rise. The touching starts gradually, during the process of starting to get hard, perhaps just touching the head of your cock or your balls, but pretty soon its a happening thing. In my experience, its not like a circle-jerk, where everybody is trying to cum together or anything. Its more a touch your cock, just make it feel good, stroke a bit, stroke a lot, get yourself off, its up to you (and always interesting to watch each other). And you do comment on each other's erection, semi-soft, sack, etc., in sort of a joking way.

If at the beach with your wife or girlfriend, you may well get an erection (I know I often do). I've gone for a walk naked down the beach with my wife, and during the course of it had a VERY full rise to the occasion. What can you do? Well, I've learned to just ignore it. By the way, SHE won't, as its bobbing up and down and back and forth. You thing other GUYS make funny comments about it?

But if we are both sitting on your towels and a flag-pole presents itself, my wife will usually play with it discreetly (shielding what we are doing with our bodies) and then finish me off with a quick hand job (again, either shielded by our bodies, or with a towel pulled up over the area). Its not just us, either. I've seen this sort of activity with lots of couples. Don't know, maybe its a territorial thing. A bunch of people naked at a beach and the guy gets a boner... the lady takes care of it (and maybe sort of makes sure others know, a bit anyway, that she is the one that takes care of it).

[C5]

Hi raincoaster!

Thanks for answering. I've read over and over where people say there is nothing sexual at nude beaches. While I understand that for the most part that is probably true, I still can't imagine seeing an attractive woman nude and not having any sexual thoughts. Now I know the number of attractive nude women on nude beaches probably isn't that large, but still. So I enjoy hearing your point of view. My ex-girlfriend talked about going on clothing optional decks on cruises and beaches in the Caribbean and it seemed sexual for her. She had a smokin hot body and liked to be seen. Not that she would pick people up, but liked being oogled.

So when you talk about going to a beach with a bunch of male friends, is that something you still do now or was that before you were married? Like during your teen years were there other teen nudists you'd go to the beach with? Were teenage girls ever present? And now being adults do you ever go with a group of couples? And what happens if you or others get erections with a mixed gender group? Is it commented on and would the wives still service their men in front of friends? And do women ever react to well endowed men like your friend?

I really enjoyed your detailed experience with your friend. I'd love to hear others from your experiences on beaches. Something about erections and large penises on nude beaches really interests me.

[happystroker]

So when you talk about going to a beach with a bunch of male friends, is that something you still do now or was that before you were married? Like during your teen years were there other teen nudists you'd go to the beach with? Were teenage girls ever present? And now being adults do you ever go with a group of couples? And what happens if you or others get erections with a mixed gender group? Is it commented on and would the wives still service their men in front of friends? And do women ever react to well endowed men like your friend?

I really enjoyed your detailed experience with your friend. I'd love to hear others from your experiences on beaches. Something about erections and large penises on nude beaches really interests me.

I was a teen in So. California, and we spent lots of time at the beach. Sometimes a few guys would be together, and depending on who it was, we'd enjoy talking about sex and noticing each other's hard-ons rise and fall. We'd feel ourselves a little and one thing would lead to another, and at least one or two of us would end up getting off (sometimes one or two of the guys were too shy). The great thing was that we could do nasty things and our parents just figured we were hangin in the sun.

There were three of us who, after discovering how much we liked it, would go to the beach just to look at girls and get off with each other. We'd go at night, too, make a fire, drink beer, piss and play with each other cocks. There were two girls who sometimes would come along. One was the first girl that I ever fucked (at my teacher's house, after he and another guy had her), and the other was her girlfriend that she talked into coming (and then loved it). The girlfriend found she was very attracted by cocks, especially big hairy ones, and she kept us all happy.

We'd walk along the beach, naked and find a place to sit. Not too public, but not private, either. Then we'd hang out and talk, and kinda watch each other, and enjoy what we knew would be coming. My girl, Vicki, used to kid us a whole bunch when we'd get hard, and it just made us harder! Vicki didn't play so much with our cocks as kid us, egg us on, and jill herself watching--especially watching her gf working on a cock.

At night, when we were "alone" on the beach, we were pretty unrestrained. Several times we put out the word that we'd have a campfire, and guys and girls came by either to watch or join in. There was one girl who didn't hang out with any of us, but who would always come and suck everyone she could....she had long blond hair and big, hanging tits. She'd go topless for us.

Since then, I've gone to nude beaches with groups of male friends, college age and older. We kind of understood that we would enjoy the erotic side of it. When I've gone with couples or mixed groups, there usually was no sex, but plenty of exhibitionism, and it was quite accepted, appreciated really, for men to get hard, and the women usually would say something. I've also gone just to enjoy the sun and water.

On my first trip to a nudist camp, I was with an older couple, and he was very well hung..ten inches and balls to match. He got lots of stares, you couldn't help it, and later when we went to the swinger's cabin, some women came just for his cock. One father, who had introduced his daughter to swinging a few months before, brought her just so she could have a really big cock. He was actually a bit big for her, and she had a better time with (normal) me, while her mom sucked the big one.

When my j/o buddy and I would go, we were looking for other guys who were attractive to possibly play with. Dick was pretty well hung with a nice package, and I especially liked to watch other guys suck him, and would masturbate on it. A happy day would be when two or three guys would suck him.

Our sexual relationship was "secret", since we considered ourselves straight, and it was extremely erotic for us to perform in public, with other guys and maybe a girl or two, watching, and we would always jack off where we'd be seen, and sometimes would suck each other in the dunes, where guys would watch and enjoy.

[handlebar]

I read the posts with interest as i have always regretted not experimenting when a teen.I'm happily married but still think quite often about
doing this.I have done phone a few times and watch clips of guys jacking with great joy.Now to someday watch in person.

Otherwise,cam or phone is the closest.

HB

[C5]

Interesting that during your teenage years that all of the guys would get hard but some were too shy to masturbate. Once hard in front of each other it was a natural progression for us to masturbate.

[handeman]

Hi folks handeman here with another experience a few weeks ago I was riding a bus my car was in the shop ror repair. The bus is generaly boring, I mean what can happen on a bus? I was in the back of the bus when this other guy got on the bus and sat down across from me. several times he looked at me. after a few mintes he smiled at me and opend and closed his legs every now and then he would sqweez his legs together and closed his eyes as if he was fantasizing a bit, Then he slipped a hand down his side his pants. I was sure that he was stroking his dick.. He seemed to be having trouble setting still. He used his other hand motion for me to move oer next to him. I looked around and there werwe not many folks on the bus so I moved next to him. Right away he cuddled up next to me. he then placed a hand on my crotch and found my dick was vary hard. He stroked or slowly caressed my cock. I was sooooooo hottt that I could hardly set still. He cauthaned me to not be tooo obvious as I got closer to cummmming. He took my hand and placed it on his hard dick and I began tooooo feel his dick throbing in dick. I wanted to open his pants to see him cummm and he then pulled away for a moment . He quietly tell me that he wanted to cummmmm in his pant I smilled at him and gave him what he wanted. I felt his cock spurt more than a few times. As he relaxed he looked at me and asked it I was ready to cum I knodded yes and he was real good before UI knew it I was getting a mess in my shorts. He then said thanks and got off at the next bus stop.

I am now a very horny guy. See you all.

[raincoaster]

I've read over and over where people say there is nothing sexual at nude beaches. While I understand that for the most part that is probably true, I still can't imagine seeing an attractive woman nude and not having any sexual thoughts. Now I know the number of attractive nude women on nude beaches probably isn't that large, but still. So I enjoy hearing your point of view.

Hi C5, well there may be nothing sexual at nude beaches for some, but I think there definitely IS a sexual aspect to walking around naked at a public beach with hundreds of other naked people, both male and female. And if we are honest, I think we all have sexual thoughts in such a situation. As far as the number of attractive nude women on nude beaches, our beach has literally thousands of visitors on a nice weekend. And there are lots of attractive naked women there.

So when you talk about going to a beach with a bunch of male friends, is that something you still do now or was that before you were married?

Even after marriage, a few of us will get together to go to the beach (just "guy" stuff), and will often meet up with others we know there. And when a bunch of guys are sitting around naked together with their dicks hanging out, topics usually turn to a sexual nature after a while. At that point, dicks start going up and down on their own. And when sitting there with a boner gets casual, it usually takes just one guy to start moving it around a bit, to get things going.

Like during your teen years were there other teen nudists you'd go to the beach with? Were teenage girls ever present? And now being adults do you ever go with a group of couples? And what happens if you or others get erections with a mixed gender group? Is it commented on and would the wives still service their men in front of friends? And do women ever react to well endowed men like your friend?

Yes, when I was a teenager there were other teens I'd go to the beach with, but I wouldn't call them all "nudists". At that age, kids will go to a nude beach just to say they've been there. Sometimes girls would go down there with us. Needless to say, as a teen male at a nude beach, you're hard ALL the time. As an adult, I've gone to the beach with mixed-gender couples, and yes, you still get erections in these mixed gender groups. Sometimes erections are commented on (usually joking around), but no, wives don't service their men in front of friends. That's something for later when you get home. And as to whether or not women ever react to my very well-endowed friend, they MUST, as when he walks down the beach it swings back and forth pretty noticeably.

[C5]

Hi raincoaster! Thanks again for the honest answers. See I would think there would be a sexual aspect to nude beaches. It would seem that the initial draw to one would be somewhat sexual. I mean a lot of people would say what's the point if you've grown up wearing swimsuits on textile beaches. So I'd think there would be a bit of going there to see and be seen. That may wear off quite quickly but that has to be an initial draw for many.

I can only imagine how it must have been as a teenager. I would get involuntary erections all the time for no reason. I can't imagine being nude around a bunch of nude people at that age. Where you self-conscious about having erections on the beach? Did it ever cause you any problems? And did the teenage girls that went with you go nude and were you erect in front of them? What was that all like?

Now as an adult are your erections at the beach caused by visual things, say a beautiful woman, or still involuntary? Does anybody ever masturbate when you are with mixed gender couples? Has you wife or any female friends ever commented on the size of someone's penis, whether large or small? I'm curious what women think about penis size in a setting where they are seeing so many of various shapes and sizes. Are they still taking notice and do they get impressed?

Thanks again for dealing with all my questions!

[Ambidextrous]

Hi All, Couldnt wait to reply. I had an experience with my close friend last year and it was weird for a little while- but now we're very comfortable with it, and even video masturbate when we cant be together. It started innocently enuf- we were showering in an open bay shower at the health club when I got an erection. I was embarassed but he broke the ice with " are you gonna take care of that?" we dried off and didnt say another word until we got back to his apartment where he complimented me on the size of my cock and asked would I like to see his. I was nervous, but we experimented with touching each other, and for what lasted a long time- jerked each other off to a huge shooting ejac. I have since become very open and honest about my masturbation, and proudly talk about it when i can discreetly of course. Thanks for the great posts!

[NightShadow]

I for one have never masturbated wit another male. I have experimented in my early years but never really did much but touch and that was it. Being the sexual being that I am I do wounder about it. but Doubt I will ever experiance it. sad really.. it's like missing a part of life and never knowing.