bi sexuals who never perform

[all the time]

I am what I would consider BI, I enjoy the thought of oral sex with other men. I have even known someone whom I would have like to have had sex with but didn't. My wife has a soft dildo that she likes me to deep throat. I don't think my wife would let me be with someone else, but I have a big desire to fulfill this part of me.

Since I have never really been with another guy, am I still considered BI?

[herakles]

Since I have never really been with another guy, am I still considered BI?

Do you like to watch men stroking cock in videos and chat? Anyway I would say you are ... you're just not acting on the impulse.

[saltydog]

Well ,hopefully you will get the chance to suck a guys cock with your women watching! and if you are giving head and still thinking about pussy, yup, you are probably bi! Enjoy the freedom!

[jamiegirl]

Good question..... I struggled with this for awhile myself. I had always been very curious about women and would find myself watching the women more in porno's than the men. At that point I had not done anything with a woman but because of the way I felt and that if given the chance I knew I would do it, I considered myself "bi". Later I did get several opportunities to fullfill my fantasies about women and at that point I knew I was bi lol. If I find myself single in the future I will again seek out both sexes.
I think that if you know that you would go through with something if the opportunity arised (pun intended) then I think its possible you are bi. If your not quite sure that you could ever do anything than maybe its more of a bi-curious thing. I'm not sure if I'm making any sense but whatever you choose to call it....if your comfortable about whatever you call yourself....then thats what you are!

[all the time]

thanks Jamie,

I wish I had the opportunity to find out for sure. I love watching other guys getting off, yet I love watching women get off. I tried talking my wife into letting me and another guy I know have oral sex. In return she could fuck him as well. she vitoed that.

[NocturnalE]

Hey,

I would consider myself bi but just to a small degree. I wouldn't want to go too far with guys. But still, even though I know it, I'm just not ready to try it out yet.

[T_2K_69]

I am what I would consider BI, I enjoy the thought of oral sex with other men. I have even known someone whom I would have like to have had sex with but didn't. My wife has a soft dildo that she likes me to deep throat. I don't think my wife would let me be with someone else, but I have a big desire to fulfill this part of me.

Since I have never really been with another guy, am I still considered BI?

I wouldn't get too hung up on labels. If you consider yourself to be "Bi", then you are, it shouldn't matter what others think.

Anyway, good luck with being with another man, guess you will have to have your wifes blessing on that one. I am in the same predicament. I'd love to experience it, but doubt I will ever "be allowed to", although I bring it up every now and again.

[epsom34]

I believe that one can be bi without ever having experience with someone of the same gender. I also believe that there are numerous "shades" of sexuality rather than the strict labels of straight, gay or bisexual.

I would considered a lesbian but there are times when I am aroused by a man (although I have never acted upon those feelings in a long long time.)

Just do what seems natural to you. Good luck!

[happystroker]

You are what you are...and then there are labels. You could be considered bi, or not. I like Jamie's definition--if you KNOW you would do it if you and a desirable person came together, they you could be considered bi...

for me, there's no question. i like to play with guys, have since i was ten. never fallen in love though, don't think i would. my passion is for women....especially licking them.

[dexter]

I seem to want a female for permenent relationship but want the freedom to adirme a mans cock and get hard looking at it.