My goal.

[ultra40]

Hey all, I'm new to this forum, male/straight. Been jacking since I was about 13, I'm 18 now and its becoming a hinder to me.

I love cumming too much haha. And recently I found my sisters 6" dildo, and ive been fucking myself with it (condom on the dildo of course) and it just feels way too good.

That being said, im giving up masturbation for the entire month of december, and if i succeed i will go for even longer into the new year.

Its day 3, i almost slipped up today, lets just say i edged for like 30 min almost came 4 times but i stopped myself. This is gonna be tough.

I will update my progress as i go along.

Wish me luck!

[Susie]

Good luck with that but it's a mystery to me why anyone would want to give up such a pleasurable activity.

It will be interesting to see how long you last. Please keep us regularly updated.

[MootX]

Hey, congratulations on the vow, and sorry to say but I'd be pessimistic of the outcome. My girlfriend and I have a similar thing going on, I'm not allowed to indulge in any sexual activity for 40days, or I lose the bet. Lemme tell ya, it's hard as hell, and if you're already touching yourself by the third day, you're through, just wait till you've gone for a week!
Good luck!

[inabit]

You're young and healthy.. Enjoy it. Sex with yourself, a female or another male is all good as long as you enjoy it.
Why would you want to stop, instead you should be exploring the opportunities that await you, just use your head and stay safe.

Long time jacker

[MRBLOBBYOFCO]

Yes good luck of course but as others have asked, what's the point? Wanking is to be enjoyed, like all other sex, not denied.

Happy wanking from a non-abstainer

Mr B

[Doma]

I have done that abstinence thing several times and failed miserably. I used to not be able to go past 3 days, then one day I went 4 days. But on the 5th day I met my girlfriend and well ummm I couldn't go any longer than that lol.

I can't speak for Ultra but the reason why I (try to) abstain is to build up sexual tension and when I release it it will feel better, then when I masturbate every day.

[jc205]

My advise ..dont even try...think of the years of pleasure ahead of you..think you've gone long enough now...so give up..

[cearul]

I'm not going to discourage you. I've tried before, and it is hard. I've been successful for months at a time, but I keep doing it again cuz its so much fun. Besides, I've sworn to keep my virginity till I'm married, and masturbating helps me. If you're serious though, keep at it and don't give up.

[ultra40]

So i slipped up on the 4th day ahah. BUT! since then i havent done it once. So im technically at day 16 without a squirt.

ITS BRUTEL!!!

But i have noticed that i feel alot better about myself. More "clear" and focused. My luck with the ladies has been alot better too. Probably because I'm so horny i'm doing whatever I can, and being more of myself around them. Lucky I dont have a girlfriend right now, I'm not sure how I could deny a blow job LOL or a quickie.

For anyone else contemplating attempting doing something like this, here is my advice.

DO NOT LOOK AT ANY PORN!! even this website can get you going.
Dont shower with the door locked.
Keep your bedroom door open at night.
If your get a hard on or become aroused just let it do its thing it will go away.
For guys, you will have alot of dirty sexual dreams, like hardcore stuff.
Ive had some dreams where i woke up from them thinking I actually just got a blow job on a motorcycle. haha.

Overall i think the benefits of being clear and "shame free" are better then the quick pleasure of a nice load.

Dont get me wrong, ive had some orgasms that are mind blowing. But just think, how did we survive before we knew how to masturbate? I was fine, in fact I would say being innocent and not even knowing the feeling is healthy. In all honesty If i could go back in time, I prolly wouldnt of even started masturbating. I would of waited till I was with a girl to find out. Thats how this pleasure should be enjoyed with someone you love, not your hand.

We'll see how i feel after 30 days is up though. I'll either be on the webchat squirtin a load for all you guys to see. Or i'll be preaching a masturbation free lifestyle LMAO.

Anyways good luck to everyone, and wish me luck as I continue my "adventure"


Happy Holidays!

- ultra

[Doma]

Good for you Ultra and thanks for the tips.

But I have to differ with you on one thing. I try to abstain to make my orgasm more intense, not because I want to quit masturbation.

I guess I don't consider masturbation to be inferior to sex infact in many ways it is much better. Not that I'd say no to sex of course. Its just you know your body (or your dick more specifically) better than anyone else.

[johnblob]

I've given it up for December too, and even though I watch porn when I'm bored sometimes and get hard I haven't even stroked it, let alone got close to cumming. It's just about self control, and finding other ways to tire yourself out.

[ultra40]

Day 22.

Its really getting hard, im basically walking around with a permanent erection. Im suprised i havent had a wet dream yet. Its all bottled up in me just wanting to get out. AHHHH this is getting brutel.

I wonder if its healthy for an 18y/o guy to not cum for this long. my balls feel like there gonna explode lol.

im still goin though.


merry christmas everyone!

[Doma]

I'd do anything to be in your shoes right now. 22 days is like 2 years to me!

[Doma]

Oh and by the way I know exactly what you mean when you say you feel better when you don't masturbate. I feel a lot healthier, and my dick seems bigger and more sensitive, its kind of hard to explain isn't it. When I went 4 days without jacking-off, it was the most I've ever abstained but when I touched my dick, it was like heaven on earth!! And thats just 4 days lol I wonder what it would be like if it were 22 days ahahahaha, I'd put a "DONT DISTURB" sign on my door.

[johnblob]

Well I've lasted quite easily through December, and haven't even had a wet dream (though I almost did last night - woke up before I came) so once it turns midnight, or perhaps if I'm too tired then when I wake up in the morning, I'll have a nice long, slow session. I have some climax delay condoms that I might use - because otherwise I'd probably not last too long, and there'll probably be a hell of a mess too after this long, so it'll be easier than cleaning up afterwards. I might limit myself in future though, perhaps once a week or something - I feel more energetic when I don't wank.