Phasing it out

[Doma]

For the past few years I've always wanted to cool off from masturbation. For the people who ask why all the time, the answer is quite simple really. When you hold off for a while and then let it out, it feels a lot better. Nowadays masturbation is more of a habit for me, I'm horny; I masturbate its that simple. That is I do it to be relieved, but when I'm done I don't look at the ceiling and say "FUCK THAT was AMAZING!!". In my early masturbation days, when I got an orgasm I'd feel it in my entire body. I'd feel it tingle in my feet and sweep up violently but beautifully, putting me in a state of ecstasy that lasts for a while. Now that I do it 2-3 times a day I only feel the sensation in my penis. I want to be swept off my feet with an orgasm. THAT is the reason for me abstaining for awhile.

However I've always tried that and failed miserably, AND I MEAN MISERABLY. I've never gone more than 3 days, until recently when I went 4 days (before I met my gf) Like it makes a difference So since that strategy of trying to go days without cumming is not working out and seems to high a challenge, I've decided to make a new strategy. One which I call phasing it out. Instead of going days without masturbating I'll masturbate every other day, meaning today I don't masturbate, tomorrow I do, after tomorrow I don't, the day after that I do. When I manage to do that I will then raise the bar and say only 3 times a week then once a week then hopefully I can go longer periods without masturbating...and when I do.............MAN I AINT NEVER LEAVIN MA ROOM!!!!

[stroker6]

you should try edging your cock, its very good

[Wanker023]

I know what you mean about that full body orgasm Doma. All the abstinence in the world couldn't get me one of those unfortunately. I think it's something that gets used up and doesn't come back.

[SavoryIce]

A lot of times, my boyfriend holds off on masturbating to make the orgasm better when he does or when we have sex, but what really helps is if you drink a lot of water, apparently. I've actually seen the difference, in that with more water, you get more volume, and the whiteness is slightly richer. Also, the texture is very smooth, but thick at the same time. I really observe these things because of all the handjobs I give to my boyfriend...So, that can probably help you if you're wondering. Usually the water has to go down maybe 3 or 4 hours before you masturbate, though. That way, the water courses through your body, which should be enough time to make it to your crotch.

[Doma]

Oh don't worry about that I drink loads of water lol!

Oh and Wanker I think I kind of felt similar something similar to a full-body orgasm. I once went 3 days without masturbating and I felt so horny I just couldn't get my hand off my cock, it was throbbing, and shooting precum all over the place, I kept edging and edging trying my best to not cum but there is only one winner in a struggle like that and when I came I felt the earth tremble under my feet, it was beautiful. And that was only after 3 days. It wasn't exactly the full-body orgasm I was talking about but it came pretty close for only 3 days.

[Doma]

Well its going well so far. I didn't masturbate on Monday but did on Tuesday, so now I'm not but tomorrow I will!!

[Horny_n_Hornier]

Good for you Doma, I for one only masturbate a few times a week so I don't see much of a difference in the intensity of an orgasm. But you keep going man.

[zx81]

I usually masturbate three or four times in a week; I think it's a good balance. Everyone's different, of course, but I find that if I left it to just once or twice a week, I'd get too excited and cum way too quickly. Any more than four times, and my orgasm just isn't intense enough. I tend to have a good long session twice a week and a couple of quicker ones.

I've just finished masturbating, and it was the first time I've done it since Monday. I'd been edging for a good hour or so and my orgasm was amazing . If I'd left it a few more days though, I just wouldn't have lasted that long.

[Doma]

Wow that is a very delicate balance you got there.

[lou50]

A lot of times, my boyfriend holds off on masturbating to make the orgasm better when he does or when we have sex, but what really helps is if you drink a lot of water, apparently. I've actually seen the difference, in that with more water, you get more volume, and the whiteness is slightly richer. Also, the texture is very smooth, but thick at the same time. I really observe these things because of all the handjobs I give to my boyfriend...So, that can probably help you if you're wondering. Usually the water has to go down maybe 3 or 4 hours before you masturbate, though. That way, the water courses through your body, which should be enough time to make it to your crotch.

I don't think I could hold off for a day. I enjoy masturbating once a day and sometimes i do it twice. I'm gonna try drinking the water to test your theory.

[MootX]

Hey Doma, excellent idea. Recently I began to notice the same thing, masturbation has become a bit too much of a habit, and less enjoyable (even when edging) than before. In my sexual relations with my girlfriend I noticed that her orgasms were really intense, whereas mine were fairly mild in comparison. I want to be able to share the same feelings with her, and I want to experience sex/masturbation "anew," because it's getting too much of an everyday thing.

Good luck, I'll try the same thing an maybe I'll post the results.

[Doma]

When I masturbated last night, I felt a little tingle in my feet. What I've been looking for this whole time. Funny thing is 2 days before that I masturbated 4 times and they all felt amazing. Yesterday I actually felt the orgasm at my feet the way I used to when I was 13. I'm not sure its a direct result of this though.