I'm a 51 year old married white guy near baltimore md. I'd love to have a male masturbation buddy for nudity, mutual touching and jackoff sessions. But here's the thing. My wife and I have an understanding, if we ever fool around with others outside of the marriage, we only do it together. I've talked to her about bringing in another guy, and she's receptive to considering the idea, but she's not there yet. Also, I doubt she would participate - would probably just watch and maybe would not even get naked. She's also highly afraid of us contracting STD's so safety is a big issue for her. Well, me too, but I don't think you get aids from mutual masturbation.
I've done it with guys before, behind her back in the past - part of the reason for our understanding. But I do have a craving to play with another penis.
Anybody else in similar situation?