Take time to have fun!! read guys please!

[daveno111]

hi, im 20 and still a virgin, whether that be a bad thing or not i do not know...someone please tell me. I have noticed that over the past couple of weeks that my masturbation habits have been getting more and more frequent, yet i wasn't taking real time to have any fun, it would be 10mins infront of porn and i was done. Last night i really took the time to be able to get some lube all the lights off and really have a good 50 min session and it really reduced my stress levels and allowed me to relax, i suggest this to all guys to really take the time once in a while and just let youself go.

I have a question for the girls though. Like i said i am 20 and still a virgin, i havn't really done anything with a girl, simply coz i just havn't found the right one just as yet! I really want to experience a hand-job and like i said i more horny than ever. Now if i was to get a hand-job and pay for it (not something i thought I would ever do) if hypothetically you were to become my gf later...and i told you this...would you be disgusted and want nothing to do with me?? I just need a girls view on this..but Guy's also have your say please!

[Susie]

If she is any sort of girl, what you did before you met her shouldn't bother her at all. It's how loyal you are with her and how you treat her that should be important. If you had done anything that you think might worry her, then keep it to yourself.

[master blaster]

Now if i was to get a hand-job and pay for it

I'd keep it to myself unless she asked.
That being said, try to find a girl that will do this for you and not a pro. You'll enjoy it far more, especially for your first time