25 year old virgin worried cock is too small

[jerk off]

Hi,

I am a 25 year old virgin. I allways been to worried about my penus size that when had g/f etc i havent wanted to show them my penus for fear of laughing etc. I am around 5.5 inches when hard. Not sure how to measure girth but i am not that thick. My penus is around 2 inches when flacid but looks very small. Caanyone suggest if my penus is big enough to pleasure a women. I am increibly horny 25 year old who masturbates around 2 times a day sometimes three but really want to loose my virginity as at this rate i feel like i never will but i like to loose it not to a prostitute but someone i meet but as i say i struggled in the past as feel inadequete down there. I been playing team sports for years so it was tough flacid wise being one of the smallest in the showers and most of the penuses in porn films are huge. Hope someone can advise, thanks for reading, maybe i post some pics if feelign brave on the pics part of the forum to see what people think,

Mike

[Wanker023]

All I can say is.....yours is definitely bigger than mine. You don't have much to worry about. One can ony assume that the amount of women that want enormous penises is small. I think women aren't interested in just a guy's penis size. They look at other things. Personality, looks, and a guy's ability to make her laugh. Those are my two cents :/

[Doma]

Nothing too worry about Mike, mine is around the same size as yours give or take a few although I'm pretty thick, at least I like to think so lol. My ex-girlfriend thinks I'm huge down there and, she told me how thick I was and how I'd never fit down there lol. Which shocked me a little because she's had sex before, unlike me and surely she has seen bigger dicks before lol. Maybe it was just a compliment, who knows?

Anyway I know how you feel, I'm a 20 year old and I'm still a virgin, meaning I've never had vaginal (or anal) intercourse before but I've had a blow-job now and then, as well as some other things. And I feel that when I do lose my virginity it should be too someone special and someone I care about and not just some whore, or one-night stand. I'm sure you feel that way too.

My advice is when you are with your girlfriend fool around with her a bit, bite her ear, play with her tongue, kiss her tongue, talk dirty to her, maybe have some dry sex, meaning you just rub your body on her on the bed feeling your dick getting hard on her body, eventually you'll get hard. Then you wont be so shy to show her.

[panty stroker]

Hey Mike, I agree. You have nothing to worry about. Women care more about your self-confidence than anything else. Mine's not any bigger than your's, and I've never left a woman unsatisfied in bed. It's not the size, it's how well you know how to use what you have. If you come across like you can handle yourself, then she'll open up to you. Be honest with her. I told the woman I gave my virginity to that it was my first time, and she was flattered that I chose her. She was gentle, and helpful. She showed me what she liked, and how to pleasure her. She talked me through giving her a fantastic orgasm. Wanker's right too, an old Australian buddy of mine once said,"Mate, if you can make a woman laugh, you can make her cum" He was right. One little tip: rub one out within an hour before you go for that first time. That way, you won't be ready to blow it when she just touches it the first time. Hope that helps.

[lou50]

Don't let it bother you Mike. I have about 2 inches when flacid and 5.5 inches and about 4 in girth when erect. It's not how much you got, it's how you use it. Believe it or not, most women will tell you size dosen't matter, as long as you're able to satisfy your lover

[mddoug]

Don't worry. Mine's about the same size as yours, and I've been pleasuring women since I was 19. I'm now 51, have 2 kids (grown) and my wife still thinks I'm the best lover she's ever had. My advice? Become a student of sex. Read all you can (serious works, not porno fiction), try different stuff, get creative with your mouth and your hands, and take your time.

[cockinhand UK]

Mike - stop worrying about nothing, 5.5 inches is perfectly adequate and I can't see why any woman would laugh at that. There is one thing that puzzles me though - what's with all this "waiting for Mrs Right" crap all about? If you're serious about losing your viginity, there are some lovely working girls out there (I don't use the word "prostitute", we're all "prostitutes" in some shape or form!) who would be delighted to assist you in that. I'm not talking about the street druggies but it's easy to select a lovely girl off the internet these days. They're not cheap and a good one would cost at least £100 per hour (I'm not sure where you're from but I can only comment on the UK scene) but I think you'd find it would be worth every penny

[Susie]

Mike

It's a big heart that makes a true man, not a big penis.

[jerk off]

Hi Everyone,

thanks for all your advice and kind comments, been very helpful and confidence building. Its nice to find a place where you can talk about things like this. Cockinhand i have thought about paying for sex with using a lady of the net or something but something about it make me feel i would rather loose my virginity with someone who wants me for me and not becuase they are being paid to. I no that maybe a silly idea but can only be honest. However i may look into if i get anymore hornier (joking) lol as really want to expereince sex but as i say i would rather wait if possible so it feel right. Hope that makes sense, maybe it doesnt but at the moment thats how i feel. Thanks for everyones comments,

Mike

PS Susie beautiful comment about the big heart

[Doma]

Hi Everyone,

thanks for all your advice and kind comments, been very helpful and confidence building. Its nice to find a place where you can talk about things like this. Cockinhand i have thought about paying for sex with using a lady of the net or something but something about it make me feel i would rather loose my virginity with someone who wants me for me and not becuase they are being paid to. I no that maybe a silly idea but can only be honest. However i may look into if i get anymore hornier (joking) lol as really want to expereince sex but as i say i would rather wait if possible so it feel right. Hope that makes sense, maybe it doesnt but at the moment thats how i feel. Thanks for everyones comments,

Mike

PS Susie beautiful comment about the big heart

Yeah I agree with you I also feel the same way. The point cockinhand made is a good one, but the thing is when I look back I want to be able to say that I lost my virginity to the woman I love, and not just some one-night stand. Don't get me wrong I've done "stuff" before but I just haven't had vaginal intercourse, as much as I'd love to. But I'm willing to wait.

[Susie]

When I first read Mike's post, I found it slightly worrying that a guy could think that a girl would chose the size of his cock over his personality. Once you get to know someone and they treat you well, have a good sense of humour and you have similar interests, this is the start of an affectionate relationship. Sex should lead on from there and by that time, if his cock was 2 inches long or ten inches long, it wouldn't matter because it's the guy they are making love to and not just his cock. Females are not that shallow that they judge a person by their size, although for some strange reason, some men think they do.

I feel sorry for any guy that feels he has to pay for sex just to lose his virginity (sorry Mike, but I do). It's meaningless. You would probably feel worse afterwards.

Mike, you seem like a nice guy but maybe having sex is not the be all and end all. Maybe your confidence needs a boost in order to meet the right girl. And when you do meet her, woo her, spoil her before trying to get her into bed on the first date. There is nothing so off putting.

Losing your virginity will happen when it happens. In the meantime, carry on wanking!!

[Doma]

When I first read Mike's post, I found it slightly worrying that a guy could think that a girl would chose the size of his cock over his personality. Once you get to know someone and they treat you well, have a good sense of humour and you have similar interests, this is the start of an affectionate relationship. Sex should lead on from there and by that time, if his cock was 2 inches long or ten inches long, it wouldn't matter because it's the guy they are making love to and not just his cock. Females are not that shallow that they judge a person by their size, although for some strange reason, some men think they do.

I feel sorry for any guy that feels he has to pay for sex just to lose his virginity (sorry Mike, but I do). It's meaningless. You would probably feel worse afterwards.

Mike, you seem like a nice guy but maybe having sex is not the be all and end all. Maybe your confidence needs a boost in order to meet the right girl. And when you do meet her, woo her, spoil her before trying to get her into bed on the first date. There is nothing so off putting.

Losing your virginity will happen when it happens. In the meantime, carry on wanking!!

Well Said

[jerk off]

Hi,

Thanks Susie for your comments. I am sure i dont want to loose my virginity to a prosititute. I think it does have something to do with having confidence about one's self. I will definately wait till i meet the right women. When that times comes i will definately treat her well like the princess i am sure she will be. Thanks for everyones kind comments. As i said before its nice to find somewhere where you can talk about these thing and yes i am going to definately keep wanking lol, feels great,

Mike xxx

[SavoryIce]

Well, first of all, considering the very basics, if you can hold it within your fist and masturbate successfully that way, then you're probably good.

But, second of all, considering women in general, I really don't think it matters how big your penis is...Quite frankly, the seemingly ongoing theory that "bigger is better" is a bit overrated to me, because my boyfriend is about 5 inches - the average size - and I think he makes sex an incredible experience. It's much like how I can achieve the same kind of orgasm by masturbating with a simple pen than a specially manufactured dildo. So, it really doesn't matter what size you carry, but rather how you use it.