Private messages

[Susie]

I know this subject has been raised before but I think it needs addressing again.

Just recently, I have been inundated with private messages. They range from 'let's talk dirty', 'wanna watch me cam?', 'let's have fun', 'I live near you, let's meet', 'send me some nude pictures of yourself' to 'do you want to suck my cock?'. These are to name but a few.

I don't know how the other females on this site feel about this but I find them very offensive. Just because I am a member of this site, it does not mean I am up for an extracurricular activities with people I have never met. I do post occasionally when I feel I have something worthwhile to say but have never given any indication that I would do these things.

I think messages like this are very disrespectful and demeaning. As most people know who read my posts, I am an older lady and happily married. Just because I enjoy reading about men wanking and watching wanking videos, does not mean that I would degrade myself by performing some of the activities requested of me.

So in future guys, please think before you write these message and have some respect for the females on this site.

[AlwaysHard69]

Well said Susie. I'm of the same age group as you, and it was so refreshing to read your views. The assumption that anyone on this site can ask anyone to take part in anything without first getting their approval is thoroughly distasteful. Also, very refreshing to meet a liberated woman like you ; at my age, 65, I feel much more at home now...!!

[littledawg1961]

AMEN..........................
You know what assume................means don't you.
Don't assume.....................

[YanksTodd]

I agree completely Susie, I apologize for the small percentage of people here who do not respect the privacy of others. I do believe it is a very small percent, so hopefully you don't let a few bad apples ruin it for you.

Todd

[bayouguy]

Susie. thanks for your post. I agree with you totally. I also find it offensive, disrecptful and at times degrading for females to be thought of in this way.

One needs look no farther than the post above yours by Miss_Cat where all she said was hello and now has request to chat on yahoo, trade pics, and to cam, and those are just the posted ones, no telling what's in her personal messages.

As one of the chatroom moderators I witness this kind of behavior. The chatroom has a few safeguards though ..one, users have a BLOCK button where any user can block all communication from a rude or disrespectful person. The other is the moderators have a BAN button and can and will permanetly ban someone from the room.

In my view there will always be a certain amout of guys that think or believe that just because a female is in a masturbation website or chatroom she must be easy or slutty. I know and have talked to dozens of females in the chatroom that are nowere near easy nor slutty, and in fact some are still virgins. How do i know these things, because i've never asked a girl for a pic, or to chat on yahoo, ect or to cam for me, but i do have pics sent to me, i do chat on yahoo, and some have offered to cam for me, all without me asking. It's interesting how being respectful to our female members works.

For you guys reading this, remember, females come to the forum or to the chat room for their pleasure not to be some stranger's sex toy.

[littledawg1961]

I for one do not think that just because you are this site, you are open to any and all suggestions. I have just joined this site and have enjoyed it up to now. I hope this kind of behavior will not continue.
I think this site is great and want to continue to be a member.

[Zipgun]

Well it is an adult website so crap like this is to be expected and there isnt much you can do about it, short of blocking pm's or an ignore fuction, which at the moment we dont have.

Tho if someone is constantly bothering you, PM me or one of the other Mods.