First mutual J/O tomorrow!

[Busch]

I'm a 22 year old str8 male in a pretty serious relationship. Engaged actually, and I'm very happy. I've always had this fantasy about jacking off with another guy. No touching, no oral, or anything like that. Just watching porn and jacking off together. I finally got the courage to put up an ad on craigslist to see if i could find someone similar. I did. Another guy that lives about 20 miles away, 23 years old, in a relationship as well. I emailed him back and forth a little bit to make sure he was legit. Tomorrow morning while my girl is at work is the day. Going over there, he is hooking up his computer to the tv, and we are going to jack off. I'm a little nervous. I don't know what to really expect. Hell I don't even know if I will like it. Maybe it's just something thats fun as a fantasy? But im guessing I will enjoy it because I get hard thinking about it. We'll see. Any advice??

[C5]

I hope it goes well for you! Let us know will you? I don't have any advice since I haven't done that since I was 14 or 15. Did you ever do it as a teenager with friends?

[Busch]

I hope it goes well for you! Let us know will you? I don't have any advice since I haven't done that since I was 14 or 15. Did you ever do it as a teenager with friends?

I did it a few times with one of my buddies when we were like 14. But we were on separate twin beds and both covered up. We both "claimed" we were completely paying attention to the porn. But this is going to be the first time since then. And the first time that me and the other guy have open knowledge that doing it mutually is getting eachother off. Not to mention I don't know the guy.

[C5]

I had a few friends I did it with as a teenager. We usually just put in a porn and started watching it. Being teenagers, we were pretty instantly erect. The big thing then was, who was going to pull their dick out first. Once one did it was pretty easy to be comfortable while exposing and stroking ourselves. As teenagers there was a bit of touching, comparing and inspecting because we were curious. But that was it and we had a real fun time. So the hardest thing I'm guessing will be which one of you will pull your cock out and start first.

[Busch]

Yeah I imagine you are right. I imagine we will watch the porn for a while and I'm sure we'll be pretty hard knowing what's coming. I'll probably wear some loose fitting khakis or something so it will be pretty evident when I'm hard. Maybe that will make things easier...

[C5]

Are you comfortable pulling it out first?

[Busch]

Well its Thursday afternoon, and I did it. The drive was nerve racking. I had second thoughts, but I knew I had to do it or else I would always wonder. So I show up and knock on the door. The guy comes to the door and lets me in. He's a pretty normal looking dude but actually seeing the dude I am going to do this with is a little weird. It was akward for a few minutes. We hooked the computer up to youporn and just watched for a little while. Eventually I was the first one to pull out my dick and start stroking. Surprisingly, I only had a semi. I mean it was exciting, but not near what I thought it would be. We laid on the bed and stoked for a while. Every once in a while we'd glance at eachother, but not too often. We must have been stroking for at least 20 minutes. Speeding up, slowing down, speeding up. I was ready to cum but its like neither one of us wanted to cum first. Eventually he turned to me and asked if we should finish eachother off. I wasn't really sure, but I agreed. So we grabbed eachother and stroked. I was already close to cumming so I came within 2 minutes of this. He came about 30 seconds later. We wiped off with a towel, and within 5 minutes I was on my way. Don't even know his name.

Anyway, my thoughts. I honestly think this was a one time thing for me. The mutual jacking was ok. I'd rate it only a small step above jacking alone. In all honestly I would say I got maybe 85% hard at the most. Jerking eachother was definately not my thing. Something I just won't do again. Even at the edge of cumming, I felt almost sick jerking another guy. Believe me, I have an open mind, but it honestly wasn't for me. After we were done, all I could think about was my fiance and I finally realized how much she turns me on. It's not something that is going to haunt me forever though. If anything, I am more secure in my sexuality than I have ever been. My only thoughts about doing anything with another guy are gone.

Sorry if anyone reading was disappointied with the ending, but you can't help how you feel about things. It's crazy how you think you have a fantasy, but when you actually experience it, its nothing like you thought it would be. I equate it to the incest stories on the erotic literature websites. Sure its exciting to read about because it is so taboo, but imagine actually having sex with someone in your own family. NOT the same thing, and I think that's what I experienced here. All I know is next time I have sex with my fiance I will be clear headed and give her the orgasm(s) of her life!

[Doma]

Well you did better than me Busch. When I jacked with a friend it was easily the worst sexual experience of my life. I didn't get hard at all, it was awful. I'm one of those guys who is tiny when they are flaccid but then gets larger so it was pretty embarassing being naked with my little cock and he had a raging hard-on, he was very turned on by me watching him I guess. It was my first time and at least I got it out of my system. Although the thing is I'd like to try it one more time maybe with another guy...who knows it might be different at least now I know it cant possibly be any worse than that. I believe it is to early to say that I'm not turned on by jacking with other guys, as I believe that experience was just a one-off to be honest.

[C5]

Thanks for coming back and posting an honest experience! I have to say that I don't blame you and it took a lot of guts doing what you did. There's no way I would be comfortable doing that with a total stranger. For me it was always an experimental thing with close friends when we were teenagers. The act of stroking with somebody then and the little bit of touching that we did was a lot of fun, but I had pretty much the same feelings you did after I came. I'm surprised you went and did some touching. Do you think he enjoyed it at all?

So while this experience wasn't what you had hoped or imagined it sounds like you are better off for it. So in a way it's a good thing, and now you have it behind you. Do you think you'll ever tell your fiance?

[Busch]

Do you think you'll ever tell your fiance?

Fuck-to-the-NO!!! I know that I will never ever do this again, so telling her would be causing only damage. I don't think she would believe it if I told her anyway.

[Kauri Tree]

Well its Thursday afternoon, and I did it. The drive was nerve racking. I had second thoughts, but I knew I had to do it or else I would always wonder. So I show up and knock on the door. The guy comes to the door and lets me in. He's a pretty normal looking dude but actually seeing the dude I am going to do this with is a little weird. It was akward for a few minutes. We hooked the computer up to youporn and just watched for a little while. Eventually I was the first one to pull out my dick and start stroking. Surprisingly, I only had a semi. I mean it was exciting, but not near what I thought it would be. We laid on the bed and stoked for a while. Every once in a while we'd glance at eachother, but not too often. We must have been stroking for at least 20 minutes. Speeding up, slowing down, speeding up. I was ready to cum but its like neither one of us wanted to cum first. Eventually he turned to me and asked if we should finish eachother off. I wasn't really sure, but I agreed. So we grabbed eachother and stroked. I was already close to cumming so I came within 2 minutes of this. He came about 30 seconds later. We wiped off with a towel, and within 5 minutes I was on my way. Don't even know his name.

Anyway, my thoughts. I honestly think this was a one time thing for me. The mutual jacking was ok. I'd rate it only a small step above jacking alone. In all honestly I would say I got maybe 85% hard at the most. Jerking eachother was definately not my thing. Something I just won't do again. Even at the edge of cumming, I felt almost sick jerking another guy. Believe me, I have an open mind, but it honestly wasn't for me. After we were done, all I could think about was my fiance and I finally realized how much she turns me on. It's not something that is going to haunt me forever though. If anything, I am more secure in my sexuality than I have ever been. My only thoughts about doing anything with another guy are gone.

Sorry if anyone reading was disappointied with the ending, but you can't help how you feel about things. It's crazy how you think you have a fantasy, but when you actually experience it, its nothing like you thought it would be. I equate it to the incest stories on the erotic literature websites. Sure its exciting to read about because it is so taboo, but imagine actually having sex with someone in your own family. NOT the same thing, and I think that's what I experienced here. All I know is next time I have sex with my fiance I will be clear headed and give her the orgasm(s) of her life!

Nice story, but a bit unticlimatic! Did you compare dicks and ball sizes, and cum volume or distance? Where did you cum? In each other's stomachs, hands?

[T_2K_69]

Sorry if anyone reading was disappointied with the ending, but you can't help how you feel about things. It's crazy how you think you have a fantasy, but when you actually experience it, its nothing like you thought it would be. I equate it to the incest stories on the erotic literature websites. Sure its exciting to read about because it is so taboo, but imagine actually having sex with someone in your own family. NOT the same thing, and I think that's what I experienced here. All I know is next time I have sex with my fiance I will be clear headed and give her the orgasm(s) of her life!

No need to apologize, it turned out to be something that you didn't like. At least you had the experience and can go on from here, no more wondering if you are missing out on something.

[Eric1982]

Thanks for sharing your story. Sorry it didn't work for you. I've had two similar experiences. I was kind of like you after the 1st one I wasn't really sure it was for me. So I tried again and had a better time. You may want to give it another shot, or not, but for me the 2nd time was definitely better.

[ffolkes]

Sorry things didn't work out exactly as you hoped, but at least you had the courage to try! I've been "curious" for a long time but haven't had the nerve to go for it, and theres a jack-off club locally too. I may always be curious if the reality of stroking and blowing another cock to eruption would live up to the fantasy.....

[Maddog42]

Busch

Thanks for your honesty with this.. It's something I am interested in and have wondered what it would be like.. Like you I have not done that since I was a kid and the thoughts have come up once again.

never know.. I might get around to it sometime soon.....