Jack Off Partners

[Private Donut]

THis summer I'm studying abroad in England, and I'm interested in possibly openly jacking off with or jacking off my still unknown roommates. I figure I'll be trying new things, so I might as well try it out for the first time.

Does anybody have any ideas about how I can bring this up without totally alienating them?

[Private Donut]

Seriously people, I need some help here. Any suggestion will do.

[Laughing]

Just whip it out and start going at it, what's the worst that could happen?

[Private Donut]

I'll be with these people for 9 weeks. I don't want to freak them out and have them not talk to me.

[Laughing]

Well, I guess I won't be suggesting you use your sense of humor.

I would ease into it, broach the subject carefully . . . maybe get everyone drunk. In a conversation where it might fit, mention something about one of your friends having a circle jerk when he was younger or something similar. He's not gay or anything, it was just something he experimented with. Say it casually (if you say it positively or negatively you'll show your hand) and watch their reaction to it. If they seem awkward or grossed out, they're probably not your guys. If they act casually or ask for details, maybe watch porn with them sometime and talk about whipping it out or something. . . approach it as cautiously as you feel the need to.

[str8mate]

I agree with Laughing, as I think he raises good points and outlines a good approach.

You may find that your roommates are all in relationships, and therefore hesitant to engage in circle jerks, or maybe this won't matter.

or, maybe they're equally interested in engaging in this activity, particulary with some alcohol and porn to ease everyone into it...

[happystroker]

Good ideas, laughing. Also, I've found that being relaxed and sexy does a whole lot to set the tone. I've 'seduced' a couple of roommates, and one thing I often did was stroke a little in my room, imagining I was with my roommie, before coming out to hang out. Eventually they got the message, and it just happened.

You might also not confine yourself to your roommies. Check out some pubs, and you might find others who share your interests.

[raincoaster]

Just whip it out and start going at it, what's the worst that could happen?

Laughing is pretty close to the money here. The easiest way is the most direct way. Just start doing it. You could be drying off after a shower, sharing a sauna, anything that results in you being naked (wouldn't advise pulling your cock out of your zipper and going at it). You start by just touching yourself a bit (don't worry about the others... you are the one breaking the ice), preferably while you're talking about other things. Then a couple of SLOW strokes. Don't start jacking off like a madman, your hand just a blur. Just a couple of long slow strokes. Stop and guage the reaction. Then try a few more. There's bound to be a few comments, but I bet you'll find they're good natured or joking. If so, you're on the way. Takes a bit of courage, but at that point, just keep going. Again, just keep the stroking slow, no race here, because the first time, just keep it going. Don't cum. Its probably the first time you cum that could be embarrassing to the others there. Save that for the next time. Just do it slowly for a while, don't try to hide what you're doing, treat it matter-of-factly, and stop after a while. There's bound to be conversation afterwards at some point, so be prepared to discuss masturbation and how you feel about it (try to get across that you feel its just a natural thing). After all, it IS probably the most natural thing in the world. And rest assured that every single guy there does it as well. Next time you have been swimming or share a sauna, start again (and again SLOW stroking). You can finish this time. And you will probably have friends joining you. How do I know? Its worked for me (I favored the sauna method). And take it from me as a voice of experience... if you get another joining in, everybody will be eventually join in. For those that haven't done it before, it can be a bit embarrassing and feels a bit funny at first, but that passes very quickly. Is it enjoyable? Sure. And its different doing it with friends. Feel free to PM if any questions about my experience.