just won my first fleshlight

[EasternPaMale]

hope that i enjoy it as much as i've heard about it . i got the pink lady. Thats what first timers usually get eh?

[lubed_left_hand]

Great toys. I have the clear one. So much fun when camming...

[EasternPaMale]

so it arrived today-

i didn't get to try out t il tonight - altho i did open and inspect it when i got it . interesting - so on to the test - I lubed up with the id lube and the flesh light - got hard and did a couple thrusts in it laying down . Then got up and put it between the boxspring and mattress . did a couple thrusts in it there and then boom - i cummed All in 10mins. EITHER im really really inexperienced with sex (which i admit i don't have alot of experience) seems as tho i am a min man - same thing happens really when i jerk off with my hand only . im done jackin in 10-15 mins. Does this mean i have some medical problems? or is it the lack of experience all together between the 2 experieneces . I know not to expect a whole lot based on first use - but i'd like a feeler with the idea that i may have a pre-ejaculatory problem maybe ( thus the minute man theory)


any ideas?
ps im not saying im not satisfied with the fleshlight at all . im just saying i cum this fast when i jack with my hand usually . Isn't the pink lady supose to be the trainer series as well ?

[vboroda]

your probably need to start having more sex. i use to have the same problem cuming WAY too fast when i was either wacking it or having sex with a girl...very fast with a girl. sometimes within the first minute of penetration....haha pretty lame i know. but now after about a year or so of steady sex i am a champ...sometimes i dont even cum! i am very proud of myself. anyways...keep yer head up!

[EasternPaMale]

your right on the sex part . i need to get more sex - but hard to happen when women have high expectations of what thier sex partner looks like - Isn't sex suposed to be on lust , and whats on the inside?


I THINK i keep meeting shallow women who look at outside appearence and grade the prospect sex on thier appearance ( be it skinny , buff , or fat ) believe me im trying to get more sex experience now ha. but its not doing well - Altho i may be meeting a girl here and chatting her up. I hear that she may be a little loosy goosy ... and she may look past my appearance .. Hmmmm score! I NEED to practice my oral skills and such haha. another thread about this oppertunity may be forth cumming soon we'll see .

mike.

[AE]

your probably need to start having more sex. i use to have the same problem cuming WAY too fast when i was either wacking it or having sex with a girl...very fast with a girl. sometimes within the first minute of penetration....haha pretty lame i know. but now after about a year or so of steady sex i am a champ...sometimes i dont even cum! i am very proud of myself. anyways...keep yer head up!

that has given me hope lol ive only ever had sex 3 times, the 1st 2 times i lasted quite long as i was drunk but the 3rd i lasted about 1 minute, i just need to meet a girl that is understanding and willing to help me "train" to last longer lol

[EasternPaMale]

[krieger]

Hey easterpamale! Nice new toy! And nice shots as well I've got the same body type as you (what a lot of chat sites call "a little extra padding") and also am very hairy - more so than you, from what I can see. Believe me when I say that your body image is not quite as important as you might think. As cliched as it is - confidence is key. When I'm feeling confident in myself, I never have any problem. When I start to *feel* fat and unattractive, thats when I have problems.

Be confident, willing to share, open minded, caring, patient and attentive. The women will come flocking

And if that's not enough - always remember, there's someone for everyone. There's endless sites out that full of people who *fantasize* about your body type - go looking!

k

[thehandthatfeeds]

I want one! Hope Santa is listening.