by jizzzz » Sat Jan 31, 2009 10:47 pm
I go both ways... wait a minute, that didn't sound quite right... What I mean is that sometimes I just leak, and sometimes I plant one on my shoulder. I'm sure it varies from one person to another, but for me the most impressive geysers happen when I am totally turned on both physically and emotionally, and allow some time for the feelings to build – typically at least an hour or so. At age 48, I know what turns me on, plus I'm fortunate in the respect that I can get my mind in a place where I can enjoy some pretty mind-blowing orgasms. Sometimes it's just a 'maintenance' thing and I just have to "git 'er done," and that's when I don't really get the most intense climax. At other opportunities, usually after several days without a release, I get into it, and that's when the really big ones 'come.' Erotic videos work, so does outdoor play (I live on a farm so that's an advantage!), adult toys can also enhance the moment.
The point that others have made, and I agree, is that you shouldn't measure success with a yardstick.