just me

[masterbaiter]

i know i'm selfish. but it's my post. i've been married second time now for 10 years. 3 years ago i filed for disability, as did my wife. i just got my social security disbility. as of 2 years ago wife and i quit having sex. because of a lot of on going aches and pains. now for me as of 3 months ago i just quit masturbating. i loved both. but the aches and pains get in the way, and well i just gave up. i get hardons all the time. and even get the precum, my dick throbs. all of that. but when i get my privacy to do my thing. well i just give up. i figure what's the use. and let it go limp. and then go on my wonderful mary way. i just wanted to write it out on here. just to get my ffrustrations out. it helped a little. well that's it. i hoped everyone here gets thee's. i just gave all of mine up. take care

[bugleone]

OK,..this sounds like severe depression to me, and a cry for help. One can be clinically depressed and not even be aware that one is! What you are describing is well known to me and yes, it does put one right off of the sexual stride because of a feeling of sheer hopelessness. Without wishing to pry into your health problems, it does seem that you need to speak about this with your doctor as a matter of extreme urgency, especially since sex appears to be one of the few good things you have available which can make you feel a lot better in both miind and body. It might also be a good idea to look up any web forums on both your particular illness and also sex therapy.

I wish that there was some comfort that I could offer to you that would lift your mood but unfortunately it seems that you need outside help and possibly yet more medication to lift your depression. If you can get this help I am sure you will want to return to what are our most basic needs and pleasures dispite whatever happens to us in life. I can only offer my genuine sympathy, a degree of understanding and a sincere hope that you can find some relief from the horror that depression is.

[jc205]

Man that is so sad. hard to think what to say. I gave up wanking for about 3 months this year, for no reason, thought it was due to age, I'm 77, like you I'd start and then could't be bothered to carry on, luckily I'm well over that and back to my usual enjoyment. Unlike you I was in no pain, At 42 you should really be getting the full pleasure, reading posts from older people so many say that their wives gave up on sex, but wanking gives as much pleasure.I really hope you keep playing with it and start to enjoy the pleasure again. Glad to see that at least one other guy was concerned enough to reply to your post,thought a lot more would have tried to offer sympathy at least. All I can say is don't give up I'm sure you'll get over this low period. take care man.

[masterbaiter]

thanks for your responces. i do hope i get over this. i get bored looking at porn. even cartoon stuff. i just gave it all up.