Question for all women of the MP (& in MD/DC/VA)

[mrmac2k]

What would it take for any of you to be totally comfortable enough to attend a jack/jill party held in your location? I for one would like to know because I've seen many (or at least a few) posts from the women and although interest is there, intent isn't. Now don't get me wrong, I understand fully the safety concern first and foremost. I have in the past put together a party and I was fortunate in having an even number of people attend (about 6 total) although the party itself didn't turn out the way I imagined (everyone masturbating until the cows came home) but all in all most had fun. I also participated in a swingers/gangbang group as co-founder sometime ago, so I know how tough it is to ensure everyone is safe, has a good time and has no regrets to attending.

Back to the question. I'd like to know what would make the women most comfortable. Those who know me know I'm serious about havin fun. I don't need to hear from any of the men yet about what would make you comfortable because overall most have stated they would attend with no hesitation. This is meant for those women who really want to make this hot fantasy quite possibly come true, not just here in the DC/MD/VA area but wherever you may live. You can post your thoughts here or send them to me at food4_thesoul AT yahoo. I am not able to put one together right now, but in the near future I plan to and I would like to know that I can have enough participation. I don't want to waste anyone's time (especially my own) nor do I want to falsely raise anyone's expectations. I am serious about this, hence I'm asking the women what they want. If there is a place that can be rented out or what have you, where all can be comfortable and the cost can be somewhat low, then let it be known. Hotels are great but probably not as safe a place for women. No idea is a bad idea. Feedback is what is asked of at this point.

If the women want to bring a 'friend' to keep or make them feel safe, so be it. If its a male or female, no problem. There would be a mandatory meet and greet (at least one) so that the women could get an idea of who they would be dealing with. We ALL have something to lose so everyone would have to be on their best behavior and use discretion when necessary.

Guys, when and if I get a good amount of feedback from the ladies, then hopefully something can happen from it. Remember, this is a general post for all women of the MP but also specifically for those who live close to or in the DC/MD/VA and surrounding area (to include WV and DE) and willing to travel at the most an hour or so. Keep in mind that the info posted here by the women should be good ground rules for any and all guys to try to adhere to if you plan to have a gathering that includes women.

This thread will hopefully stay up so others can learn/use what is given here by the women. The hope also is that if you're able to sponsor a jack/jill event, post it here and let everyone of us know what worked and what didn't. Although all interests may not be met, its still a good idea to try and meet as many as possible. Call me an optimist, as well as a voyeur/exhibitionist LOL.