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[jack_n_forfun]

Hey guys! I guess we never give up trying but it's a plain fact that women don't like watching men masturbate, nor do they like cam2cam action unless they can take you to their private site and it will cost you. I am an older guy that loves to show over my cam, as it is the only sex thrill that is left for me. I have only found two over the 3 or 4 years that I have been trying to find a woman that will watch me. I had to carry on a conversation for several weeks before they would consent to it, then they say they don't have a cam. I offered to send them one and they both refused. You know why??? I think it is because they are men, not women. In the end, all they want is your money anyway. Good luck in your search. I think it is a waste of time. If anyone has found it any different, please let me know. Thanks.

[elisabeth]

really.
i thought it was a golden rule 'guys give it up as fast as they fuck'.

nothing turns me on more (visually) than watching a man masturbate but... patience is a virtue.
sheesh... give us women a break. we gotta juggle the possibility of rapist, stalkers, serial killers... etc.

however...
i agree. most 'women' that you'll find on the web that contemplate ambiguous masturbation are indeed Men.. or closet Faggots that give real women a whorishly bad name.

...but don't give up. there are still a few females out there that aren't being pimp out by some greasy asshole trying to make a quick buck by pandering 'women inc.' .

[letsplay]

I read your note and have to disagree. There are women out there who get just as turned on watching a guy masturbate as you do showing off for them. Granted, women tend to be a little less visual so most do like some conversation as well. For myself, I find that very attractive. I like taking the time to get to know her first and make her feel as special as I do to find someone I can chat with one on one and also share our passion in such an intimate way. You will not find them by announcing that you are ready now, would any ladies like to watch. I take that back, sometimes in the chat room you will see one or two who like to watch and remain somewhat removed from the conversation. But any time it takes to get to know her first is well worth the effort. You make a friend as well as a masturbation partner. I also have to say I do understand your frustration at being so drawn to exhibitionism as a way to excite masturbation. It isn't easy to earn someone's trust and most women consider this a much more private affair than men do. But it is unfair to lump "all" women into the category of only wanting to exploit men and get their money. A lady who truly enjoys the pleasures of masturbation is not after money for doing it. But most are a lot more private about who they choose to share this with, especially on a cam. The ladies I cam with show more because they know how much it turns me on and like watching my reaction as opposed to getting a thrill out of the exhibitionism part of it. Not that their aren't some that do enjoy. But they are many times fewer than men. But then we all knew that. So have fun and be friendly, you never know when you will make an impression and a new friend.

[jack_n_forfun]

Ok, I got it. Thanks for the reply's. I'm out there if anyone is interested.