When to Masturbate and When Not To

[mickeyosl]

My wife and I have not had sex in a month. I have masturbated once durign this time because I was waiting to see if she wanted to have sex, but something always come up and we didn't, and I still was horny. The next day I would think about masturbating but wouldnt thinking this might be the day I would get a really good oral sex session, but then, you guessed it, nothing. I would have one hell of a hard on but if I masturbated the day she wanted to have sex, would it be as good or would I be able to perform, since most of our sessions would be at night and I work during the day.

Hell of a predictiment. Anyone else have this issue and any sugestions?

[Tazz41]

I'll masturbate if I know for sure I aint getting any.Which is usually all the time lately.But I dont have a problem gettin it up or cumming inside her after one jack session.

[feetluvr]

That seems to be the primary predicament we guys are in so often. I made a decision a long time ago to take quantity over quality as far as sex with the wife. Fortunately I can still manage quite well even after jackin the same day we do have sex- but so often we don't. It really can be a roller-coaster ride of ups and downs: anticipation then disappointment and even frustration and anger. I've even been trying to move in the direction of jerking off for her, often on her when she's not interested in sex- mostly happens in the mornings. Even worse, my wife eggs me on: complimenting me, teasing me but not having sex- then when the time comes when she's interested and we have the time- her period comes. Bites the big one! That's why I've gotten such a hardened attitude of fuck it- I'm going to enjoy myself whenever I can.

[Hornymale]

Masturbation is part of the adult male sexual heath just like when we were teens. Most married men masturbates. Just dont stop enjoying your solo sessions and have a talk with your wife about your needs and listen to hers.

[Hornymale]

Masturbation is part of the adult male sexual health just like when we were teens. Most married men masturbate. Just dont stop enjoying your solo sessions and have a talk with your wife about your needs and listen to hers.