need advice for meeting up

[pat312]

Im thinking of meeting up with someone for a mutual jack off or what ever. Of course im a little nervous. Any advice? Pros? Cons?

[malavik]

yeah when you meet up with someone do it first in a public place, you have no idea what kind of person they really are until you meet them in person (the same can be said for both parties). Meet someone public and laid back, coffee shop is a good place to meet people i found for anything really, get a cup of coffee, tea, hot chocolate, anything and sit and talk with them. You have a comfortable atmosphere because people are around in a safe environment. you get to see who they are, what they look like, what they sound like, and if you have a connection with them and feel safe before you get home to yours, or theirs, or a motel or whatever you are going to have fun in. Judge the situation would (would i ((name)) like to jack off with this person? would i like them to jack off with me?). The whole point of a public place is for if either one of you feel a bit freaked out you can take it slow and easy, relaxing while you re-evaluate the situation and decide to go further with that person. Hoped that helped!