My thoughts on masturbation, what are yours?

[luvatug]

I am a seperated guy who is a single full time dad. When i was married i had a normal sex life, and still maturbated then, as i do now.
i was masterbating long before i ever had sex and my hand has always remained faithful to me, its always does it the way i want it done, it doesnt have periods or get headaches.
When i was younger sometimes after masterbation i would feel guilty, i could never work out why. These days i just say to myself, is masterbation enjoyable? Yes it is. Its better to have a wank than rape somebody.
I feel masterbation is something that i will have forever, if my wife is gone i will still be satisfied to a large extent due to wanking.

[Susie]

I am a seperated guy who is a single full time dad. When i was married i had a normal sex life, and still maturbated then, as i do now.
i was masterbating long before i ever had sex and my hand has always remained faithful to me, its always does it the way i want it done, it doesnt have periods or get headaches.
When i was younger sometimes after masterbation i would feel guilty, i could never work out why. These days i just say to myself, is masterbation enjoyable? Yes it is. Its better to have a wank than rape somebody.
I feel masterbation is something that i will have forever, if my wife is gone i will still be satisfied to a large extent due to wanking.

It may surprise you to know that women do not choose to have periods and headaches are generally caused by running round after their lazy men who expect them to be at their beck and call whenever they feel horny.

Susie has spoken.

[krieger]

It may surprise you to know that men have very distinct needs; women often shout down their men, making them feel guilty for wanting sex, whilst at the exact same time expecting men to fulfill the needs of the women - needs they fundamentally do not understand, much as few women understand the male attachment to sex.

[luvatug]

I am a seperated guy who is a single full time dad. When i was married i had a normal sex life, and still maturbated then, as i do now.
i was masterbating long before i ever had sex and my hand has always remained faithful to me, its always does it the way i want it done, it doesnt have periods or get headaches.
When i was younger sometimes after masterbation i would feel guilty, i could never work out why. These days i just say to myself, is masterbation enjoyable? Yes it is. Its better to have a wank than rape somebody.
I feel masterbation is something that i will have forever, if my wife is gone i will still be satisfied to a large extent due to wanking.

It may surprise you to know that women do not choose to have periods and headaches are generally caused by running round after their lazy men who expect them to be at their beck and call whenever they feel horny.

Susie has spoken.

HI Susie, I apologise, i didnt mean to cause any offence with how i worded my post.
My ex wasnt big on sex really so i had to masturbate more than i had sex but i didnt mean any offence.
Peace, lol

[Hornymale]

Masturbation is part of our sex life. When I was a teenager I used to feel guilty after I masturbated. I promised myself over and over again that I wouldn't masturbate anymore. The guilt was mostly because of my religious upbringing. Needless to say I never stoped. Other wise, I do it more. I masturbate at least once a day. I enjoy very much getting naked and stroke my hard penis. I can never stop and have no intention to. No matter what my marital status is. So guys, never feel guilty. Satisfy your wives/girlfriends. They have the same sexual needs as we guys do, eventhough I think (not sure) that we guys have a strong relationship with our cocks. We want to play with it all the time. I certainly play with mine as much as I can. I am masturbating right now as I post this note. It feels good...

[Susie]

Haha, apology accepted, lovatug.

The way your post was worded and kriegen's subsequent response sounded like women were put on earth just to satisfy the needs of men.

Of course, the opposite is true. You men were placed on earth for the enjoyment of women, when we want it, not to be jumped on as soon as we come home from our shopping trip, lunch with friends or booking our next all girls holiday (all paid for, of course, by our hardworking men).

Then again, we are worth it!

[Alan]

Just my opinion....

I don't believe in Santa Clause, the Easter Bunny or that masturbation is a sin. Accordingly; I haver never felt "guilty" for masturbating.

Additionally, the perspective that men have "sexual needs" that women don't have bothers me greatly. Obviously, I agree that men (much like myself) generally have a higher sex drive than women. However, I think that many men use this as an excuse such that sex with their woman should be focused on satisfying the man's uncontrolable sexual need that he was born with. It almost seems that some guys believe that, as a man, they are victims of the sexual needs that they were born with and that the woman should somehow feel sorry for them and fuck them just to help them temporarily satisfy the sexual demon that us guys are cursed with. If in fact there is any truth to my perspective, in certainly sets the stage that many guys have sex to please themselves and have no concern with pleasing the woman. Gosh....; I wonder why women don't want to fuck as much as us guys do????

How about this earth shattering concept.....;

...what would happen if a man made such a significant effort to learn about his woman sexually so that their sex could be mutually beneficial. In short, I think that if guys actually learned how to please their woman, there would be much more fucking going on. In my opinion, a woman that is "well fucked" is far more willing to satisfy her man when he is horny and she is not.

Not busting anyones' balls here; just sharing what works for me.

[elisabeth]

Just my opinion....

I don't believe in Santa Clause, the Easter Bunny or that masturbation is a sin. Accordingly; I haver never felt "guilty" for masturbating.

Additionally, the perspective that men have "sexual needs" that women don't have bothers me greatly. Obviously, I agree that men (much like myself) generally have a higher sex drive than women. However, I think that many men use this as an excuse such that sex with their woman should be focused on satisfying the man's uncontrolable sexual need that he was born with. It almost seems that some guys believe that, as a man, they are victims of the sexual needs that they were born with and that the woman should somehow feel sorry for them and fuck them just to help them temporarily satisfy the sexual demon that us guys are cursed with. If in fact there is any truth to my perspective, in certainly sets the stage that many guys have sex to please themselves and have no concern with pleasing the woman. Gosh....; I wonder why women don't want to fuck as much as us guys do????

How about this earth shattering concept.....;

...what would happen if a man made such a significant effort to learn about his woman sexually so that their sex could be mutually beneficial. In short, I think that if guys actually learned how to please their woman, there would be much more fucking going on. In my opinion, a woman that is "well fucked" is far more willing to satisfy her man when he is horny and she is not.

Not busting anyones' balls here; just sharing what works for me.

that sounds crazy enough to work