lance.g wrote:As far as penis size goes, I think one's apprehension correlates with how they feel about most things. I am a natural worrier so I think my dick may be on the small side, though countless polls assure me it's average. I agree that in a relationship there are a variety of more important factors (such as sense of humour, communication, and so on); when I was married I don't remember penis size ever crossing my mind. I have also grown comfortable around women who don't know me well thanks to the 'it isn't the size but how you use it' maxim. I am now very confident in how I use it. I think the last stumbling block occurs when that safety net is removed. For example when I change before or after a hockey game, I am uncomfortable in a way I haven't been around women in more than a decade. I know that I will not get a chance to show the guys I'm sexually competent (and if I did receive that opportunity I really don't think I would be particularly interested). Hence, it's like a time warp back to high school when casual makeout sessions were interrupted with the nagging thought that she has been with tons of guys (not likely), all bigger than you (doubtful). So people don't worry, your dick is what it is; enjoy it, get comfortable with it, and most importantly work on your personality and partner satisfaction.
P.S. I am well aware that the real issue at work here is my insecurity as a hockey player; if I were better in that arena, I would no longer worry about shower room comparisons. However I have been trying to improve at sex and hockey for many years, and thus far the only substantial results have been in the bedroom.
Hi Lance, that was well put. You are right when it comes down to the real issue.
