For the past several years, I have been certain (and comfortable) with the fact that I have an anal fetish. However, I just started dating a gal who absolutely loves getting fucked up her ass. Although I am fully enjoying the fact that she somehow feels that I am doing her a favor by giving it to her up her ass; I have to admit that her love of anal sex has completely diluted the intense nature of my anal fetish.
In short, I think that my anal fetish was more about the taboo nature of the act rather than the act itself. Curious to know if others have had a similar realization...