Knowing if they're interested?

[goin2cum124]

Ok, so I've always been interested in having a j/o buddy (boy or girl), but am curious as to how people who are really experienced with this kind of stuff really get involved. How do you know the person is interested? Or, how do you get them interested? A bunch of us guys were sittin around watching the playboy channel this past weekend and I had on shorts with no underwear, and could see my bulge as i was sitting there, but no one seemed to care? How do i bring attention to it in a positive way and kind of a discrete way? I've had male on male encounters (no sex), just oral stuff and it was fun. I am also trying to get my partner interested in having sex with another couple or even just doing it in front of them. Any advice for a guy just starting all this? Should i just start talkin about sex? Whats the easiest way to get a guy to be comfortable and open up? I mean, it doesnt take much to turn me on, surely all guys are the same? And surely most guys are as interested in having a j/o buddy as i am? I mean everybody's got a little curiousity in them right? I know all guys talk a big game about, "Dude, you're gay", but surely there's some desire. what's the easiest way to bring that out?


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[T_2K_69]

I am definitely interested, would love to help you out. To me, it seemed pretty obvious if you just had shorts and a raging hard on. Maybe if you started rubbing your cock through your shorts, not too obvious, but just slightly, someone would say something (positive) and it would get things started. Also, it might depend on how many other guys are in the room with you at the time too. Good luck and hope it works out for you.

[jacknalldatime]

It hasnt happened to me but I would say "sorry guys but I can't hold this anymore...don't mind me" and start jacking.

[Conran]

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