Masturbating

[Storm16]

Heey guys, I have a question...
When you (guys) masturbate, how long does it really take you before you ejaculate?
When I jack off, I sometimes cum fast; that's if I'm watching porn. I last longer without porn.
one more thing, how can you last longer? I'm kind of worried as I don't want to be embarrased

Any help is appreciated

Honesty is appreciated

[Bport]

Embarrassed by what? Asking a question is always OK in my world.
My masturbation habits are defined by opportunity; if I have some time I take it and prolong the pleasure, if I don't I just get down to business and unload. It can take hours or minutes. Its good either way!!

[barryandfriend]

Well first of all it depends if you masturbate quckly or slowly, depends if you stop and start masturbating, if you watch porn or just a sexy pic or thoughts, depends how often you wank and for me depends if I need to go a wee or not.

When you get close to cumming you can stop and then start again thats called edging according to some you can do that for hours never tried it too long my self I just like to cum but not too quickly normally 10 minutes or so. It also depends if someone is coming in to where I am wanking some times I have to go into the bath room and carry on wanking.

Hope this helps.

[Tazz41]

Nothing to be embarrashed about. Time is what you make.Just enjoy.

[Horgasm]

When you (guys) masturbate, how long does it really take you before you ejaculate?

Depends. I've got some folks I have cybersex with, and it can take me 3 hours or more before I actually cum. (I also prefer using both hands to type, so it's tough to get down to business.) If I'm just tossing one off, I can finish in just a couple minutes. It depends on how much time I have, if I've gotta be somewhere, how horny I am, if I'm playing with someone online, and it's really hot, lots of different things. So I'd have to say anywhere from a minute to 5 hours.

one more thing, how can you last longer? I'm kind of worried as I don't want to be embarrased

Simple: Stop jerking off. If you feel like you're going to cum, stop. Start up again in a minute. Learn the sensations of your body, and learn when you're going to cum. I'm assuming you mean that you don't want to be embarrassed with someone else, not just masturbating. If you're embarrassing yourself because you cum too fast jerking off, you've got other problems. Learning to know your body, and knowing what triggers you to get off, will be a great first step. I know that if my gf plays with my nipples while I'm having sex with her, I'll cum almost instantly. It's a constant matter of smacking her hands away from my chest. Condoms can make me last a LONG time. Some positions make me shoot quicker. If I've jerked off that day, I'll take longer that night. If I've been drinking, that might make me take longer. Certain drugs can make you last longer, or make sensations stronger so you'll only last a minute. Prozac, for example, can make you take FOREVER to get off, if you do at all. It's really getting to know yourself. Also, try and play around with kegel exercises, or tantric "male multiple orgasm" techniques. They might not help you last longer, they're just fun.

[Cocknhand77]

At first I focused on cumming quickly. Learn to control urself and taking it slow , ig,will take some practice. It is what makes it fun.

[harcos2007]

The advice to stop touching yourself - just don't touch your cock at all until it's a little soft - is excellent. You'll find that each time you resume stroking, you'll be able to get a little "higher", a little more intense stimulation.

Another way to prolong masturbation - and it's always a good way to start - is to grasp your erect cock just at the very base, right where it originates, with thumb on top and two fingers on the bottom. Now do NOT stroke. Just pulsate the base of your cock with very quick little squeezes. maybe 3 per second (yes, very quick ones). That will keep your cock increasingly engorged but you won't be able to cum. Again, stop touching at all if you think you're getting close, wait until your cock is a little softer, and start again.

Sometimes if you think you're about to cum too soon you can stop it by squeezing the base very firmly and holding on until the sensation passes. It usually takes several seconds, maybe as much as 10 seconds, for the "I'm cumming" sensation to let up. Give yourself at least another 10-15 seconds before you start stroking again.

The longer you can delay, the more times you can stop and start again, the more intense your orgasm will be, and )in general) the more volume of cum you will spurt.

[LilyChen]

I think it is normal for men to ejaculate fast especially when they really get horny in watching porn or reading erotic story but if you really want to have a good pleasure on masturbating then you should start buying cheap sex toys like fleshlight.

[Lexi]

With necessary evacuation masturbation that is with me such a thing. I want to masturbate all the time. If I then start with masturbation I realize now that I will not make it in this moment. Then I stop and start at another time from new. During masturbation, it is up to a certain point still not sure that I can ejaculate. If I succeed, but I have a very nice orgasm fades with 5-6 highlights in an aperiodic borderline case. As it were, the whole excess semen is pumped out. The subsequent relaxation is very pleasant. I used to have just an orgasm and the cum ran out.
I think that with us as long masturbators is a neurological problem. Because the Longstanding overstimulation the sensory nerves have lost the penis of sensitivity.
A Pollution I never had because I have already started with 9 years still dry with masturbation, and since Daily Masturbate. Therefore, my question is whether through years of masturbation, the ability to Pollution does not even get or lose?
It would be interesting to know if all men from a certain age have problems with orgasm. Or whether the sexual behavior over a long time all negative influences.
I read for many years, all I can find about masturbation. And I must say that that phenomenon long masturbation in medicine is poorly understood if at all. Therefore most doctors know this issue to begin little.

[petewhim69]

I feel so much better when I masturbate as often as Possible. Once or more a day, yes indeed. Then maybe not for a couple of days. I think the original question was how long do I masturbate. Well, it varies..Sometimes for 6 minuters, sometimes for over 40 minutes..I depends on my control and, naturally, how hot I am at the time.
Sometimes, I am so hot, it is like instant, but could only be 4 minutes..maximum.
Stay Smooth, Naked out in the sun light !
PeteWhim