Hello all! I cannot find anything about this online but have been wondering for a long time...when you're engaging in masturbation and sexual fantasy, are you "in" your fantasy with it around you like conscious life or are you mentally watching it, and yourself, like a movie? I try to be more "in" it, but I tend to naturally go toward "watching" it. I guess this would kind of relate to watching oneself in a mirror, I suppose.
Thoughts?