masturbation vs. intercourse

[foxeejanis]

how does it feel for a guy to jack as opposed to when he puts his penis in a girl's pussy?

[relaxandrelease]

I thought my relpy posted earlier, but I guess it didn't. So, here it is again. Intercourse is much more intense (usually) for a guy, in relation to the orgasm (I won't get into sex dolls here, foxee, but pm me if you want to know more). The feeling is more all enveloping (in relation to a guys penis) than with masturbation. Also, as a plus, a guy gets to see the real time results of his actions, and pleasing someone else generally allows for a greater arousal. With sex, a man has someone else pleasuring him, which is an enormously wonderful feeling. Sex orgasms often tend to leave me more tired, whereas masturbation orgasms are simply relaxing. With masturbation, however, it is quicker and easier to achieve. Orgasm speed is based on a man's own desire to move his hand faster which is not dependant on comfort of someone else. Sometimes, a man doesn't want to worry about anyones orgasm but his own, and masturbation fits the bill. Also, it is easier and safer (both for the body and the emotions) to masturbate, rather that trying to find a sex partner if one is not involved with someone. Masturbation is very relaxing, so it is tremendously useful when one is stressed and has some time to do the deed. Masturbation tends to be rougher, and a man can adjust the tightness of his hand to suit his needs.

I hope I answered your question, foxee.

[sage]

thats a good explanation, nice job.

[whysguy]

Everything relaxandrealease said was great, masturbation is more of a controlled release, but with sex as well as being pleasured by someone else, and returning the favour helps the sexual arousal, as well as the warmth and wetness of a woman's pussy that can really never be mimicked with masturbation, it makes for a better orgasm if you ask me.

[relaxandrelease]

thats a good explanation, nice job.

Why, thank you m'dear. That means a lot to me, comming from you.

[Much2Fun]

Intercourse is best. Procreate

[foxeejanis]

does coming get quicker depending on the position?

[MrsH]

I miss sex.

[relaxandrelease]

does coming get quicker depending on the position?

Again, foxee, that depends on the individual. For example, if a man or woman finds doggie style to be visually or physically pleasing, then they will become more aroused in that position and come quicker than if they were in, say, missionary or 69. It's all a matter of preference.

[JD-Man]

I've always thought it kind of unfair the way masturbation is viewed as secondary to intercourse. A lot of people seem to have the view that masturbation is what you do when you're not getting any. I think that's a terrible way to look at it. To me, masturbation and intercourse are two completely different things.

Intercourse is very psychologically satisfying...especially the first few times you're with someone. There are all these elements of excitement and newness the first time you see your partner naked, the first time you touch them under their clothes, the first time you slide your cock into her wet pussy. There are elements of acceptance and conquest...someone valued you enough to let you actually penetrate her body. You're closer than two people can possibly be. It's amazing.

Masturbation is about personal gratification. It's about doing what you know makes you feel good and doing it until you reach that beautiful climax. I think the reason some people have a negative view of masturbation is that they don't get into it. They just rub one out as fast as they can and get it done with. When I take the time to really play with myself, I mean really touch myself all over and caress my cock, it's even better than sex from a physical standpoint. No sexual partner can please you the way you can!

[Alan]

I've always thought it kind of unfair the way masturbation is viewed as secondary to intercourse. A lot of people seem to have the view that masturbation is what you do when you're not getting any. I think that's a terrible way to look at it. To me, masturbation and intercourse are two completely different things.

Intercourse is very psychologically satisfying...especially the first few times you're with someone. There are all these elements of excitement and newness the first time you see your partner naked, the first time you touch them under their clothes, the first time you slide your cock into her wet pussy. There are elements of acceptance and conquest...someone valued you enough to let you actually penetrate her body. You're closer than two people can possibly be. It's amazing.

Masturbation is about personal gratification. It's about doing what you know makes you feel good and doing it until you reach that beautiful climax. I think the reason some people have a negative view of masturbation is that they don't get into it. They just rub one out as fast as they can and get it done with. When I take the time to really play with myself, I mean really touch myself all over and caress my cock, it's even better than sex from a physical standpoint. No sexual partner can please you the way you can!

I agree with JD-Man. My sexual experiences enhance my masturbation and, when I make the effort to be patient and "edge" while masturbating, the ultimate orgasm is unbelievable.

[bos.guy]

I agree with JD-Man as well, though the post made me think of some follow-up questions (for the forum at large, not just JD-Man, lol):

I agree that masturbation is about personal gratification, but if you share in a masturbation session with others, does it change into a sexual situation then? Obviously it's not intercourse, but does it no longer become about masturbation and more about something else?

Just something to throw out to the group...

[jaybee2000]

Masturbation and intercourse can go hand in hand, so to speak. When I have sex with my wife from behind, the sight of her bare bottom really turns me on so much that sometimes, when I know she has orgasmed, I withdraw my penis and wank myself off until I cum while looking at that erotic sight.

[Mr Mastur]

During masturbation, I can FANTASIZE the most erotic fantasies that can NEVER be played out in society. Fantasies produce wonderful orgasms.

I find it VERY DIFFICULT to fantasize during intercourse.

[daviscpl]

my wife had the big c 10 yrs. ago . we loved our sex -- but after all that a cock in her was very not much fun for -- so we started jackin and jilling with each other and love seeing the whole person not just part of them -- so much that we have had some others join us for it. wow that is the best ever for us -- we masturbate others and be masturbated by them has opened a new page in our love . to see someone else make my wife cum by touching her was out of this world. and her seeing me cum in front of others is the best thing she said she has seen. I just wish that we could find more that like masturbation as much as we do...