mutual masturbation in my life

[herakles]

hmm I am new user here, hello. I have a story to share, and sorry if I overstep any masturbation page boundaries.

When I was a teenager about 17 or 18, I moved out of home to further my education away from my home town. I shared house with another friend he was 18 also. Being regular teenage boys, we were as horny as hell 90% of the time. I remember we were sitting in the loungeroom, discussing a girl we knew and how we'd both like to screw her or something like that. I said merely this discussion was making me horny and I was getting a hard on. My friend then said something like 'wanking is perfectly ok' and admitted he was getting horny and why don't we both jack off? I was aching for a wank so I agreed. We both dropped our pants and had a good wank together. I loved it.

A few days later we spoke about this experience. I said it made it even hornier to watch him masturbate while I stroked my own cock and my friend agreed. It ended with us both wanking together again.

So this went on for a week or two every second day. One day, while about to start our session again, my friend suggested that he could help me masturbate. I was well hard and so I agreed. It was awesome! I never came as much before as I did that evening. Now, I had been jerked off by girls before as well as had regular sex, but for some reason, my friend's hands on my cock and balls was the horniest thing I had ever felt up to that time. The experience of running my own hand on his cock and cupping his balls while he did the same to me was tremendous! I blew a huge load that night.

We started having our sessions every night, sometimes several times a day. It was the most awesome sex I had in my life up to that point.

We kept this going for some weeks. One day I decided that what I really wanted to do was to take his beautiful cock in my mouth and feel his throbbing member pump his sperm into my mouth. My god it was so hot to suck his dick and taste his sperm like that, when he reciprocated on me I practically exploded straight away and I nearly choked him with the flood of my cum. He has to wait for the next night until he really experienced the horny glory of smoking a pole properly and the intimate and powerful experience of a bucking cock cumming in your mouth.

Our relationship lasted about another 6 months like this before, I can't remember what caused it, it petered out. I can still recall that first fabulous feeling of him running his hands on my dick while I felt his pulsing cock and balls in my hand.

Now, I am not going to run the usual "but I'm not gay" type excuses here. I know that basically everyone has a little bit gay and a little bit of straight and the proportions change from person to person and from day to day in a single person. But I don't typically look at men in that way and its women I'm mainly interested in - I masturbate to naked ladies usually. I know that experiences like this are actually common among teenage boys. But that first mutual masturbation relationship I had still makes me smile.

I've been married for 10 years now (I'm nearly 40) and my wife and I have a great sex life when we get around to it - adult working life being what it is.

However recently our sex life has been absolutely incredible all thanks to mutual masturbation! Since she went off the Pill proper penetrative sex is risky (as we don't want kids) and we have been relying on mutual masturbation together and it's taken out sex life up another notch!

She loves to masturbate and loves to tell me about it and I love a good wank so much it's almost been out of control lately! And once a week we sit naked on our bed or sometimes in the lounge and discuss our good wanking sessions and what pictures or videos we found particularly horny. I love watching her stroke her gorgeous pussy while I tell her about the latest girl I stroked my cock over on the internet. I love touching her pussy, feeling her wetness pour into my hand, and sliding my finger in and massaging her G-spot until she comes almost violently on my hand. Then she continues to rub her clitoris with one hand while she cups my balls and I wank my cock until I come on her belly.

She knows in my youth I had flirtations with other men. But really if I think about it, what I have had flirtations with is mutual masturbation! I keep wondering if I should extend my masturbation activity to new partners but I guess as much as I want to jack off with another man again I have to respect my marriage and not overstep boundaries.

So I wanna just come on this board now I found my natural home and sing the praises of masturbation but especially the experience of the mutual wank. Just writing here about it has made me deliriously horny ... I have to go and wank now, unfortunately, solo this time.

[LoveThyself!]

That's a great recollection of your experiences, Herakles. Thanks for sharing! It reminds me of some of the guys I've played with as I grew up, and those are great memories. Why don't you invite your wife to check out the site here with you - we don't have enough couples here. And when you really get comfortable with it, you can join us in the chat room, turn on your cam and we can all masturbate together. Sounds like you'd both appreciate it and neither of you would be physically overstepping your bounds. Hope to see you (both) there soon! Thanks for joining our site!

[herakles]

Thanks for the kind word LoveThyself. I will see if I can broach the subject of the site to my wife.

[Much2Fun]

Many Many times have I done this. In Louisiana with the nice warm air she just loves I get me some Shrimp and some fixins. Great night. I had a fun night with my fiance of us taking turns doing stuff to pleasure eachother.

[PM4082]

My ex and I did it a bunch... one time in less than an hour sh came 12 times and me 7!!!!

[herakles]

Recently, well a few months ago, I got my wife a 'rabbit' vibrator to replace her old simple one. Let me tell you fellas, the money (it was expensive!) was well worth it. She loves to read sexy 'fan fic' on some internet sites and this makes her super-horny and moist. She will drag me into the bedroom strip off and start with the vibe on her clit, lying naked on the bed legs spread while I lie next to her stroking my cock. I love watching her fuck the machine it makes me super-hard. After a while she gets super hot and really works the vibe in her pussy and has the most intense orgasm. Sometimes while she does this I will kneel between her legs and pump my cock until I come on her pussy, other times she spreads her legs wide and I fuck her really hard which she loves. Her cunt feels incredible after she's orgasmed with the vibrator.

Recently she started to fuck the machine by kneeling over it and sliding onto it from above, riding it cowboy style and staring at my engorged cock as I stroke it and watch her hot body, tits wobbling and her cunt sliding down over the tip of the dildo while the little rabbit-ears attachment vibes on her pussy. She says it feels really powerful to do this. It certainly is fucking super-hot when she does it; the first time I blew my load so much it shot into the air, onto her and onto my face (I haven't done that since I was about 20!) which triggered her to cum very intensely and loudly. When she settled down she sucked my cock clean until I was hard again and I fucked her very roughly doggy style.

She is out at the moment and I'm stealing some 'solo time' although nowadays I can jack off whenever I want. The other day we sat down on the couch to watch this movie with her favourite movie star in it, which makes her horny. I sat with my laptop balanced on the couch arm and slowly jacked off to some porno pics while I cupped her pussy through her panties and felt her moisten up until I slipped the panties to one side and slid my finger inside her cunt. I enjoyed fingering her and jacking off to my favourite internet cocks and pussies while she squirmed in fascination to her fantasy hollywood leading man.

I love my wife and I love masturbating with her!

[bastard3]

Last night my g/f and me had a quick session. Started out with me just lightly rubbing her pussy lips. She soon joined me on her clit, and I started fingering her and stroking myself. She came quickly then started to lick and suck my nipples and finger me - I shot almost instantly when she started that.

[jaybee2000]

When me and my wife don`t feel very energetic for sex, we put on a porn dvd and masturbate while watching the dvd and each other. Sometimes we even stay clothed, me with my cock out and her with her hand up her skirt. I usually let her have an orgasm first while I continue wanking and then I let myself cum as she watches. It may be lazy sex but it`s a good variation and it often lasts for more than one movie (ie. over an hour).

[Conran]

I'm gonna focus on the first part, as it interests me more.

We all know that most teenage boys end up sharing porn and inevitably masturbation too. It's very common.

But what is less common is men who maintain this fun bonding into their adult life. Having said it's less common than in teenage years, it's more common than people think.

I've long believed that masturbation is the most common fetish men have. We all love to do it, and if we're completely honest, most men love to see other guys do it too.
Combining that into a friendship is probably one of the most rewarding experiences a guy can have.

The renowned sexologist Shere Hite has suggested that masturbation is the most pleasurable sex a guy can have, because you're not obliged to please another, you know what feels good for you, and you have complete control and freedom.
Then there's the obvious fact that having someone else doing it for you feels even better. And if that's a guy, he's going to know what to do to make it feel great.
Then you combine that with a friendship you feel comfortable with, a relaxed and fun environment, and everything stacks up into one of the most incredible sexual experiences a man can have.

There is a modern movement of men who disagree with the restrictions of the labels and want to experience male bonding in this way.
It started with the g0y movement, but they were too hypocritical about other peoples sex lives while wanting recognition and freedom in the same way.

Now there's the B8M8 Network (Google it!). It's a social network of men from around the world who love masturbation in their friendships with other men, and don't fixate on the labels. They're married, in relationships, single, consider themselves straight, gay or bisexual (or decline to associate themselves with any label) and they meet on line to discuss masturbation, create friendships, share porn, and chat in the forum. New members are signing up every day, and many members promote the group in their own region and on the net.

It's not weird, unusual or a minority fetish, it's being honest about what guys find a turn-on, and what men want from their friendships with other men.

[dickguy]

The Joy of Masturbation
by
Dickguy
 It has been almost 2 years now, since my wife Bibi and I first posted Erotic Stories on a web site.

We both enjoyed making those posts and will always wonder what the readers thought of them. Last December 2006, Bibi passed away in the middle of the night from a heart attack. Our sex life ended only a few hours before she passed away in her sleep. We had made love just before going to sleep that night and both had a fantastic orgasm together. I have often wondered if that was any kind of a trigger to her heart attack, but the Doctor told me he doubted it.

In the year prior to Bibi's death, a series of events unfolded that brought her widowed sister into our sex lives. Sis's husband had been ill for over 10 years prior to his death, and intercourse was not an option for them. Sis could take care of her own needs my bringing herself off. When her husband said he wanted some relief, she would either give him a blow job, or more often than not, just jack him off. That all ended in mid 2004, when he passed away. In early 2005, Sis came half way across the country to visit us. It was an odd series of events that led up to it, but the bottom line of the story is that Sis asked Bibi if she would mind if she jacked me off. Sis indicated that she was not satisfied with only jilling herself off and thought it would do her some good, and me too, to play with my cock and watch me cum, as she had done with her husband. Bibi had a much better idea, and suggested that I fuck her instead. So with my wife's full participation, we all got in bed and Bibi took my cock and parted Sis's labia and said, "go ahead, give her what she so badly needs." What a woman! Of course, once was not enough and I was now being shared between the two of them. Since Sis lives half way across the country, I only had the chance to fuck my sweet sister in law a couple times a year. When Sis came last winter for Bibi's funeral, we didn't make love, since my three grown children and several other relatives were constantly about. However, I have seen Sis three times since last winter and we get along just great with our new found relationship. We both love to fuck, we both love to cum and we love doing it together. When I talk with Sis on the phone, she tells me she still masturbates regularly and I have told her that I do too. We both have the idea that Bibi is looking down from wherever she is and fully approves of what she actually started between Sis and I.

Living alone now, I can jack off pretty much any time of the day that suits my fancy. Sometimes it is in the morning, while I'm still in bed, some times in front of the computer, looking at photos I have stored of Bibi or Sis, and sometimes in the shower, thinking of the times Bibi and I had sex in the shower. Anyway, I am over 70 now and want to say that a good cum is very much a part of my daily routine. A couple times in the past 10 months, Sis and I have laid in bed together and each gotten ourselves off together. I always tell her when I am going to cum, and she quickly takes me in her mouth and takes my load of cum. Then we share a nice juicy kiss and I get part of it back. Then either she or I will finish her off and I usually go down and get a mouthful of her delicious cum discharge. So I truly believe there is such a thing as the "Joy of masturbation" I do it every day.

[herakles]

Dickguy that is a great story. I only hope i can still get it on when I'm 70!

Recently I had the most incredible cum with my wife. We had gone to bed late and she said she wanted to use her rabbit to help get to sleep. I felt like a wank too, but for the first time I also used the fleshlight with my wife using her vibrator. When she orgasmed I was kneeling over her thrusting the smooth rubbery cunt of the fleshlight over my hard cock - it felt so dirty, but just right - watching my wife squirm around the 'rabbit' with the plastic cock deep in her vagina and me fucking the fleshlight ... I came really hard deep into it. Just a delightful feeling. Previously I guess I was slightly embarrssed by the fleshlight but not so anymore. I'm going to use it again now.