Discomfort from orgasm while anal toy is inserted

[Analconnoisseur]

Hey guys,

I'm a male and really into anal play during masturbation. Lately I've been using toys similar to the aneros to fiddle with my prostate (highly recommended). The problem is, I find that if I do not withdraw the toy just before orgasm, several rather undesirable things will result.

#1 my internal muscles will thrash and contract violently as is normal during orgasm- but having a dildo or other toy up there will actually hurt a bit and take my attention away from my throbbing cock- which is all I really want to think about right then.

#2 because of the above- my internals will feel soar afterwards.

#3 sometimes, the orgasmic contractions will shoot the toy right out (sorry for that visual), and again distract me from my pleasure.

What I really want is a smooth build up to orgasm, the crest of orgasm itself, and a natural relaxation- all whilst being filled. Is that even possible? Maybe I need a softer or skinnier toy?

I have three- a hard plastic prostate massager, a hard plastic cigar shaped vibrator, and a soft silicon (but very thick) dildo. None of them feel too good during climax- although I'd love them to. Ive often wondered what a real dick would feel like- probably would solve all this- although that's a bit of an extreme solution I think.

Help, fellow anal lovers!

Thanks,
AC

[parker78]

I used to have the same problem. I use the aneros, and I went on their website and no one else seemed to have that problem. The contractions really hurt at first, so much that sometimes I'd take it out before I orgasmed. I think the best thing that helped was making sure I had plenty of lube for the toy inside, not just slipping it in. Lube dries up, and once you start orgasming, it starts rubbing on everything real fast.