by Alan » Sat Mar 08, 2008 11:32 am
For me, it greatly depends on how sexually interested I am with my partner. For example; my ex-wife was always willing to have sex as often as I wanted and she would do anything I asked (anal, blowjob, handjob, etc.), however, I eventually lost sexual interest in her and I tried to avoid sex with her. Most mornings I would pretend I was sleeping while waiting for her to get in the shower........, giving me the chance to masturbate.
The situation with my current girlfriend is completely different. Even though we have been together for over 8 years now, my heart and cock still pound intensely with love as well as lust for her. I have had relationships with many women, however, none of my experiances come close to generating the raw and intense emotions I feel from being intimate with my girlfriend. In short, the woman I love is my ultimate sexual partner and the primary focus of my thoughts during masturbation. Now, back to the original question......
Is there ever a time when I would rather beat off than fuck the woman of my dreams????? Absolutely.....! Although I love sex, I also love masturbation. I am not suggesting that I would ever pass on having sex with her just so I could go home and beat off alone, however, my girlfriend and I have realized that we love masturbating together as much if not more than fucking. Sometimes we kiss while we masturbate, other times we watch porn together while play with ourselves, and most often (which is also our most intense orgasm) I lick her ass and jerk off while she masturbates her clit. I know it is odd, but we both love it.
So...., my answer is yes. There are times when I would rather masturbate instead of having intercourse.