YES OR NO POLL #5

[Niagra]

DO YOU FEEL THAT GENERALLY SPEAKING A WOMAN WOULD VERY MUCH PREFER TO KNOW EVERYTHING ABOUT HER MAN EVEN IF IT WOULD HURT HER FEELINGS, DISGUST HER, SCARE HER OR HORRIFY HER ?

[guinner]

DO YOU FEEL THAT GENERALLY SPEAKING A WOMAN WOULD VERY MUCH PREFER TO KNOW EVERYTHING ABOUT HER MAN EVEN IF IT WOULD HURT HER FEELINGS, DISGUST HER, SCARE HER OR HORRIFY HER ?

that's an easy one to answer, but I'd like to comment on it too

I think people (myself included) are too fast with drawing conclusions for another person.
Things that you might consider to be hurtful, disgusting, scaring, horrifying to someone else might turn out not to be so, or even not to be so at all.



oh, and Niagra, you really need to get that capslock fixed! LOL

[Niagra]

LOL well it was quite late from a nonstop even to eat day of work and to be honest it was the only way I could see what I was writing. SOOOO thanks they are now fixed.

BTW I have not had the time to tell you in private but I really appreciate your sound words of thought and IMO you are a very level headed and spot on with what you think and feel. I remember this one post I think in the politics forum when you said thinking about Bush made you less than happy but the way you described it made me laugh very hard and I couldn't agree more . So anyway youu go gf .

These comments on this post without swinging the vote are absolutely spot on. ANd a certain gender is far more strong than another certain gender thinks .. hehe

[Javaman365]

I voted yes.

Somethings might be painful to find out, but it's more so to find out from someone else second hand.
I also feel that without openness and honesty, there will always be niggling doubts.

Alternatively, I'm just a terribly insecure and paranoid sexually frsutrated male.

[Henry54]

My beleive is yes. But, it also goes for men.

As Javaman stated it may be much less hurtful, scarey or distasteful than being heard from a 3rd party.

I don't think that everything heavy needs to be told on a first date but needs to appear as soon as any feelings
stronger Hi how ru start. I can speak from personal experience that it is Not Good to keep things inside or hidden
from those you love and care for the most. That can be a much deeper and lasting hurt than by being up front
at the beginning.

My 1 1/2 cents worth..